This afternoon I was doing a little reflecting and I realized that Kristen and I have been in full-time ministry for just over 5 years. Meaning, for the past 5 years our only income has come from being employed by a local church. (I had paid roles prior to that, just not my sole income source.)
This picture is from my first VBS in Romeo in 2003… right after we got here. I’m still that sexy.
I have a lot of thoughts about what that means. First, I recognize that I’m way above the average length of a pastoral career. There seem to be two types of ministry folks… those who wash out quickly (2 years or under) and those who last a lifetime (15 years and up) My hope has always been to be in that latter category. Second, God’s people take care of their staff the best they know how. Leaving the corporate world and entering full time ministry was the biggest leap of faith Kristen and I had ever encountered. And our first experience landed us flat on our face 2000+ miles from home. But even in the disaster of "Horrorville" we were blessed by people who helped us greatly. (People who watched Megan, gave us food, clothing, vacations, fixed our car, and helped us out in many tangible ways.) Likewise, the people of Romeo have been faithful and loving to Kristen and I for more than 4 years. The first 1-2 years of being in ministry I was just humbled by the honor that a church would pay us to do something I love. And I can’t lie… 5 years later I’m still surprised that God would want me to do this and pay me enough to care for my family, too.
Lastly, I am living proof that God qualfies whom He wants. I never want to be shy in telling people that
getting into ministry was hard work. (Most ministry people I know are extremely hard workers.) I did work hard to "get qualified" educationally. Kristen and I married at 21 and spent several years preparing to go into "paid ministry" and it wasn’t easy. My last couple years of Bible school were dreadful as I worked from 4 am til noon and then took afternoon and evening classes, plus had an internship, plus volunteered in other areas of the church. But I didn’t earn being in full time ministry any more than I am qualified to do it. (Well, I"m biblically qualified… that’s another qualification) There have been dozens of gut checks and temptations to get out of it. I’ve come to realize that I am in ministry not because I want to, or because I set out to, but because it’s God’ choice.
That said, it’s been 5 years. I hope this is just the beginning. But I am also aware that since it was God’s choice to put me in ministry, it’s not really my choice as to how long I’m in ministry, is it? My job is just like anyone else’s. I’m called to do the best I can with where God has me right now. My future is in the same hands as my present.
Not my will, but Yours.
p.s. Yeah, that’s Mike D. as an 8th grader. He’s a senior this year and about 6-4. Yikes!