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  • nice shots, playing catch up

    A few days ago I wrote about being stressed out with bills and my inability to balance the household budget. Well, t hat was a few days ago and I’ve calmed down a bit. Things seem a little more under control right now than they did “way back then.” Some of this has to do with lots of new expenses like graduate school and mechanic pre-school as well as our current backlog of things to do but not right away like new glasses, car maintenance issues and maybe even getting a new vehicle to the family arsenal. Long story short is that after getting paid… I feel a lot better about everything.

    In golf news, I am hitting the ball very well. Yesterday I was in charge of golf practice since we had a varsity tournament elsewhere and the other assistant had some personal business going on. Despite the whining I had to deal with of playing Romeo’s North back nine, everything went fine. This was my first time playing with our new batch of freshmen. All in all I was impressed by their patience. They do not hit the ball well at all. I would categorize their game with one word: Awful So I had resolved to play 10-13 with them so that they could see that I knew the game and I could start to give them some pointers. As I was being overly nice and complementary towards them, my round started off terribly with a double bogey on the easy par 3 10th hole. On 11 I drove the ball very long down the right and was unlucky to hit a tree and bounce out into the 3rd holes rough. This left me with a very poor position for my 2nd shot on the par 5. But I felt pretty good about punching out through the trees and did so with ease. My approach trickled off the back to about 15 feet from the cup and I easily got up and down for a par. So, 2 over after 2 holes was a bit annoying when I was approaching the 12th tee. As the freshmen took their time I walked up and blasted my tee shot down the fairway about 310 yards. The 4 of the were impressed that I hit it that far and then they proceeded to hit it about half that. I think one student had already hit his ball 4 times to get to mine and it took about 10 minutes to get everyone up to my drive. I was sitting about 240 yards short of the green with a little wind in my face. But since I was in the fairway and there wasn’t anything to lose, I decided to pull the 3 wood and give it a go. Normally, I would have hit a 6 iron to about 130 yards for an easy par… But what the heck. So I lined up and swung nice and easy. As I released the ball I could feel that I made solid contact and was happy to see it floating down my target line perfectly. One freshmen said shortly after I hit it, “man, you hit that right at it.” But I was convinced that it was short of the green so when they asked if I was on the green I just assumed I had come up short. Well, lo and behold I had nearly holed it out for an albatross! It was about 3 feet below the hole and I easily tapped in for an eagle. That was my first one of those is a little while.

    Later in the day I had agreed to play with a guy from the church who I knew was awful. He lived up to the billing easily. It was only his 3rd round of golf and with that in mind, he didn’t do a bad job. Mechanically, he’s not bad. He just needs to work on it some more and put some of the tips I gave him into practice on the range. He’s one of those guys that could easily break 100 with a little concentration and some practice. For a beginner I was really impressed that he didn’t get embarrassed or frustrated too much when he made bad shots. He also had a fantastic drive and 2nd shot on the last hole to finish with a putt for par. (He 3 putted for double bogey) As for me, I continued to hit the ball very well and even drove the first green. This was the 2nd time I had done something jaw dropping in a day! More impressive to me was that I was able to control the ball very well. Even when I got into trouble I was able to make adequate recovery shots and left myself with a birdie or par putt on every hole.

  • A nice response

    Yesterday was a cool experience. A few days ago I posted my message for Sunday mornings worship service. Doing “the sermon” is not something I enjoy since it is beyond my training and fills me with incredible feelings of unworthiness and angst. I suppose I am so worried that I’m going to say something stupid and people are going to be made aware of the affect that I’m not too bright and then after the service they will meet and decide to fire me. So maybe I just don’t like to do the sermon since I don’t want to end up working at Taco Bell. “Would you like any hot sauce?”

    At any rate, enough about my feelings. The message that I shared was not only well received with “that was a real good job, thank you,”instead, there was a very nice response to my challenge and a lot of people came forward with their commitment. That was very encouraging that they “got it.” And I definitely feel this is an area of our church family we need to work on. I long to see our church family be one that approached ministry together with an eye of “what’s in it for us” as opposed to “what’s in it for me?”

    The “bad news” is that I have a feeling I will be asked to do that again next time Bob goes out of town.

  • thank you andrea

    Been gone from the PC world for several days. It was actually refreshing to be away from all media sources Thu-Sat last week. I was oblivious to major news, even more so to the stupidity of regular television.

    Thursday I woke up about 2 hours later than I wanted. I knew I was in trouble when I heard birds. I had hoped to leave the house for the golf tournament by 3:30 AM at the latest. I awoke at 5:03 in shear horror. I hadn’t set my alarm.

    So, after setting the land speed record to Grand Rapids… 2 hours, I arrived to score the Pro-Am. The group I was paired with was really nice. There were some cool execs from some nameless company and my pro was John Mahaffrey. (My pro, as if I know the guy.) He was really nice, but a little reserved. The amateurs in the group were actually pretty good. I had a hard time not coaching the team as they needed some strategy help, but I just kept my mouth shut and recorded their scores.

    Friday morning I arrived on the course and found out I was paired with Jim Thorpe’s group. That was tons of fun. He was a very nice man, he hit the ball a ton, and every time it looked like he was going to make a terrible bogey, he’d find a way to get on in regulation and get his par. It was very cool to see him win on Sunday.

    One thing that was funny for me is that I didn’t realize that I’d have to actually sit across the table from the pros in the scorers tent and check their scores. I was more than a little intimidated when I sat down across from Thorpe and Sammy Rachels (who had just shot a career round 64.) Even the other guy, Walter Zembriski was intimidating for me. Thankfully we all had the right scores and it was over quickly. I got signed balls from all the guys.

    I will be volunteering there next year, Lord willing. It was a great experience and I learned a lot. Morevover, I met some fabulous people.

  • Leave a Legacy

    Leave a Legacy

    Well, all day I’ve been working on and thinking about this legacy talk. Some people on the YS boards don’t think that legacy thinking is important. One person quoted Rich Mullins and said, “leaving a legacy is fleshly.” Really? I don’t think so. I maintain that millions of people come and go on this planet with no legacy because they never desired to leave one.

    Another helpful thought. All people, on some level, and especially those in leadership, leave a legacy of some kind. In my opinion, it’s your rationale choice to build a positive one.

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    Not every person gets to leave a legacy

    ? Millions of people come and go… with no real legacy left to show for it.

    ? Theirs is a lifestyle of mediocrity. Perhaps they were well liked at work, married a long time, raised some kids, worked real hard and had a good life. But at the end of the day, there passing is just a name on a sign as people drive by or a small obituary in a local newspaper.

    ? For many of us, this is our reality. We are stuck thinking that we will live our lives with no legacy, at least not a positive one. We fear that our lives will be judged by failure. We fear this so much that we are paralyzed into doing nothing.

    ? We never make waves in the world

    ? We quietly blend in

    ? We have to introduce ourselves to people all the time, no one ever introduces us

    ? We have some ideas, but never feel like we can voice them and lack the confidence to step out on our own.

    ? When we pass on, or even move away people are sad for a moment… but they quickly move on.

    ? But for others, a legacy is born when a person moves on that lasts generations.

    ? There are 3 kinds of these people

    • Superheroes

    o Abe Lincoln- brought a broken nation together

    o Thomas Jefferson- wrote words that govern us today

    o JFK- Took us to the moon, led a generation to dream big

    o MLK- Spoke for the little guy, his dream carries on in the hearts and minds of minority peoples everywhere.

    ? When these men died, nations stopped. Millions took notice. The nation mourned together. A generation of people can mark the moment when they heard the news that that person had died. Public memorials were built, institutions sprung up to bear their name and legacy. Streets and schools are re-named.

    • Personal legacy bearers

    o Barney Hazen

    ? Kristen’s grandfather.

    ? Had two jobs his whole adult life

    ? Sang in the church choir for decades

    ? Was the churches gardener for as long as anyone could remember

    ? Though I barely knew him, I was deeply effected by the massive outpouring of love to mark his death

    ? He quietly, even secretly, served and looked out for others. He helped many and led many to Jesus.

    ? My son bears his legacy.

    o Larry Wendt

    ? We see his legacy alive and well in his sons today.

    ? The faithfulness he displayed in his life is being carried out by Sean and Eric, they don’t have to think about it… they just do it.

    • Biblical legacies

    o Moses, Joseph, Jesus, Paul, Peter, John, The list goes on and on…

    Tonight we have a chance to look at the legacy of Joshua, the leader of Israel through it’s most triumphant time in history. It’s found in the last chapter of the book bearing his name, Joshua 24.

    Before we get too far, it’s good to take a look at an evaluation that’s written of his life and legacy.

    Joshua 24:31- “Israel served the Lord throughout the lifetime of Joshua and of the elders who outlived him and who had experienced everything the Lord had done for Israel.”

    There is no higher compliment for a man then that, is there?

    No president, or athlete, or preacher or king has left a legacy quite like Joshua’s.

    But what is this legacy?

    Read Joshua 24:1

    In the following verse, Joshua rehashed all the God has done for the nation of Israel from the time of Abraham until that very moment.

    Having covered all of that history, of mans victories and failures, or God’s tremendous faithfulness and terrible judgements… he leaves them with this challenge.

    Joshua 24:15 “But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve.”

    – Here Joshua was stating something that all of us have to deal with as well.

    – You must each make an individual decision that you must act on… are you going to serve God?

    In the second half of 24:15, we see Joshua’s simple phrase that shaped many that day. He says, “Y’all can do what you want, but me and my people… we’re going to follow the Lord.”

    This is something that each of us have the chance to do in our own lives and in our own families. Why? Because it’s an individual commitment!

    – It’s not dependent on your parents faithfulness, but on your own.

    – It doesn’t matter that you meet people who are hypocrites who use the name of Jesus

    – When you make an individual choice to follow the Lord, it’s not dependent on anyone else… but you and your actions.

    Then something weird happened.

    Joshua throws down his gauntlet, says “Y’all can do what you want, but me and my people… we’re going to follow the Lord.”

    Joshua didn’t say this like it was at a pep rally or anything… but he got a pep rally response!

    So Joshua was said “Y’all can do what you want, but me and my people… we’re going to follow the Lord.”

    And the people said “So are we!”

    And Joshua says “You better not say that unless you mean it!”

    And they say “We mean it!”

    And Joshua says “Well, if you mean it and go back on your word… God’s going to punish you.”

    They say “No, you don’t understand…. We want to be like you. We will follow the Lord!”

    So Joshua and the people got together and drew up a promise, a covenant that they made that day.

    Read Joshua 24:16-24.

    We all have that choice to make, don’t we?

    I’m not talking about the choice of whether to become a Christian or not.

    Those people back there in Joshua’s keep weren’t going to cease being God’s people if they didn’t make this covenant. But this was a rationale choice they were making between themselves and God… a covenant to follow God.

    Again, we see Joshua’s legacy in 24:31, “Israel served the Lord throughout the lifetime of Joshua and of the elders who outlived him and who had experienced everything the Lord had done for Israel.”

    Tonight, I want to ask you to make a decision like that.

    I want you to be able to point to tonight as a moment where your legacy starts.

    Where you make an individual decision to follow the Lord.

    A line in the sand where you can say “yesterday… I did things different. But tonight, I want to give myself over to the Lord.”

    I want to make an individual choice.

    In the next few minutes, we’re going to give you some time to make that choice. We’re all going to close our eyes and quietly reflect. And if you want to, and I mean really want to, we’re going to give you the chance to stand up and come up here… then when the music fades, we’re all going to stand here and pray for you by name…

    Pray