For the last two years I’ve been riding the pine at church. This time has taught me a lot about what it means to be in church leadership.
From age 16 until 31 I had always aspired to be an up front leader at church. I like being visible. I love speaking, teaching, and preaching. I truly enjoy the grind of regularly doing those things as my vocation.
Over the past two years I’ve gone from being the person everyone on our church campus knew to being a relative nobody. In athletic terms, I went from being a starter to being a player who sits the bench.
And just like in athletics, when you put a starter on the bench, the Coach always does it so the starter can learn.
Here are 5 things I’ve learned from riding the bench at church:
- Every attendee gets something different out of a Sunday morning, you can’t control the takeaway or topic one bit. I can’t believe I ever thought I could control that.
- The more a church offers the less people are involved in their community. Growing a church by doing less doesn’t make logical sense, but its 100% true.
- Never assume people know what a term is or who an author/speaker is that you reference. People in church leadership live in a different world, with different heroes, than the rest of the congregation.
- Visibly valuing people is really important. This manifests itself in a lot of different ways. But it demonstrates the church leaderships character in what they put up front.
- People in the pews care way more about the staff and their families than I ever imagined. It’s not creepy, it’s not some American idol worship, it’s actually quite sweet.
If you’ve gone from church staff to church attendee, what are some things you’ve learned through that process that could help people in church leadership?