It’s taken me a while to recognize this truism. People don’t care what my intentions are, they only care about my actions.
My intentions don’t mean squat.
What matters is what I actually do.
Sometimes I get this right.
And sometimes I get this wrong.
OK, most of the time I get this wrong.
What that was is a defining moment. And the thing about defining moments is that you either define the moment or the moment defines you. – Roy McAvoy
Whether I like it or not each day is filled with many defining moments. And in each of those moments I try to remember… either define this moment with my actions or this moment defines me.