Sadly, this about sums up the response so far.
Pretty happy about being a BP shareholder right now, lemme tell you. Great investment!
Sadly, this about sums up the response so far.
Pretty happy about being a BP shareholder right now, lemme tell you. Great investment!
“Subjectivity” has been the word of my week.
On Tuesday, I released a list of the top 20 youth ministry blogs.
Just like people argue incessantly about sports polls– there has been a lot of discussion about the release of my poll. Thank goodness no one gives these folks time on ESPN. I’d go nuts!
I knew it would create discussion, debate, and maybe even some sour grapes. I even warned the call center at work that they may get some calls complaining. (Which never happened) But I felt strongly about making the poll public. Transparency, right?
I knew/hoped/even prayed that by publishing the list it would make the entire genre better. At least that’s my working theory.
Like it or not, the youth ministry blog genre has been fading for the past 1-2 years. Several of the bigger names (some of which are friends of mine) have either stopped blogging, slowed significantly, or started to morph their blog from a blog to more of a resource/ad driver site. And I thought, subjectively, that if I drew some attention to the genre it just might wake up the once vibrant community.
Of course the poll is subjective. It’s created by a human. 66% included a composite of publicly available stats, all of which are dependent on the individual blog being set up correctly and pinging those ranking sites. (More subjectivity) Additionally, the method included a 33% weighting specifically called “influence.” I took the top 50 blogs statistically and pushed out a survey asking 20 of the top 50 to rank each blog on a scale of 1-10 for who they thought had the most influence in youth ministry. (Can it get more subjective?) I even asked that group, “Who is missing from the top 50?”
Only 2 new blogs were suggested, neither of great statistical influence.
So there was a bit of subjectivity in every arena. Even in the 100 or so blogs who got indexed there was subjectivity since it was limited to my ability to find the blogs in the first place.
This is the nature of any poll or rankings. There is criteria, but the creation of the criteria is subjective no matter what. My hope is, just like in sports, enough people will want to move up and the end result is that it makes the genre better.
Competition isn’t always bad, is it? Doesn’t it, on some level, make people try harder to be better?
Bottom line: I’m loving the discussion. And I love the fact that people are thinking about youth ministry blogs once again.

Is this the best time ever to start a small business? It sure seems like it!
If you are thinking about it, let me encourage you on two quick things.
Here’s a bi-product I love. All of those small businesses need a website. Which supports my cottage industry.

About 10 months ago a group of people sat on Chris’ back porch talking about starting a youth ministry for our church, Harbor Mid-City. As we chatted, dreamt, and prayed about this ministry one of the things that came out was… “We want it to be a safe place for students to explore a relationship with Jesus.”
That phrase stuck. It actually became a part of our ministry description which we recite during every meeting. “IOB is a safe place for students to explore a relationship with Jesus.”
That phrase got tested a bit last night.
Stephen, our teaching/senior pastor, came to youth group last night to teach on and invite students to participate in baptism. His teaching was pretty simple… this is what baptism is, this is what it symbolizes, this is who should get baptized, this is how our church does it, we’d love it if you would consider getting baptized. He did a great job.
I could tell during his teaching time that some students were uneasy about this whole thing. They didn’t feel safe. It wasn’t that Stephen was teaching anything bad or that they were intimidated in any way or even that he was manipulating them to make a decision they didn’t want to make– there was just something about the truths of Scripture that Stephen was saying that gave the room a funny, rare vibe.
You could see it in their posture. You could see it in the way they looked at him. You could see it in the way they listened to his talk.
To follow-up, we broke up into small groups and the leaders were asked to dig a little deeper with the students and ask if any of them would like to be baptized.
Three responses from my circle that tested me in my response.
Mince no words. These were questions that pushed me back to that discussion 10 months before. Was IOB really a safe place to explore Jesus? If so, how I responded either validated that statement or invalidated it.
Open questions for readers:
What would be answers to these responses which would communicate that IOB isn’t a safe place?
What would be some “this is a safe place” answers to these questions?
I think we’ve all had this moment. I love the relationship between the youth pastor, the students, and the senior pastor.
If you had a day to play with a sweet slow motion camera, what would you shoot?
I’m always at odds with this reality:
That always lead same to a place where I say, “I don’t think we’re doing this right just yet.”
In 1994, as a high school senior our basketball won the Indiana state basketball championship. If you’ve seen the movie Hoosiers than you get a glimpse of how important this is to the state of Indiana. It’s a really big deal. Not only do the finals fill the RCA Dome, the same building which hosts the NCAA Final Four, it is a much bigger tournament as every high school in the state got a chance to enter the tournament. So as the final seconds ticked off the clock in overtime and our team was up 93-88… the student body of Clay High School collectively lost it. We poured onto the court. We screamed and danced. And then when we got kicked off of the court we ran around the inside of the stadium screaming, chanting, bouncing, skipping, and dancing! And then we got kicked out of the RCA Dome and we literally just ran through the streets of downtown Indianapolis screaming, chanting, bouncing, skipping, dancing, and stopping traffic to tell them, “We won!”
That was good news worth celebrating. It unleashed unstoppable joy. It was universal on our campus. It was even universal in our city as everyone felt good about this good news!
If youth ministry were good news to the high school students on our campus.. you’d see this same unstoppable release of joy. It’d be nearly universal. Even those who didn’t embrace it would be excited it. Good news is worth celebrating, dancing, and running through the streets for.
I know it. You know it. 1% – 2% of people running through the halls… that’s just creepy!
The only question is, are we will to think and dream of ways to be good news to our campus so they might desire to hear Good News?

The byline of this site is: Crazy enough to change the world. On Twitter I alter this slightly, my bio line says, “The sane need not apply for the position of world changer.”
Both of those boil down to a basic question in my life.
Within the church there seems to be two primary ways to gain leverage.
There are too many in category two trying to leverage their influence to affluence.
There are not enough leveraging their influence to actualized change.
Just because affluence is the fastest way to change any Christian organization– this doesn’t make it right. And, as we’ve seen over the last 50 years, leveraging affluence to change the church doesn’t make the church more Christ-like. It seems to just make the church more church-centric and less community-centric.
On Saturday, I watched a documentary about Paul Watson. Where is that guy in the church? The dude took a bullet for a freaking whale!
On Sunday, my pastor talked about Nelson Mandela. Where is that guy in the church? 26 years in prison for his cause and came out hating no one.
Where are the Martin Luther King, Jr’s? Where are the Mahatma Ghandis? Where are the César Chavez’s?
Why is there no one in the American church willing to take a stand and leverage their influence for real change?
There are a lot of strong opinions. But no one seeks to offend even when the offense is offensive. There are a lot of great ideas, but none of the people espousing those ideas are willing to spend the night in jail. There are a lot of offenses in the American church, but no one is wearing a bullet proof vest to preach on Sunday morning because we are offending people with truth to the point where we think someone might take a shot at us.
Why is that?
As Christians, we believe that Jesus is the solution. We believe that Jesus didn’t just come to save us, we believe we have been placed here on this planet to make things better.
Do you want to know who is worth following? Find a man or woman who is calling Christians to love their neighbors like Jesus did, love justice like Jesus did, and leverage their influence for big/little things that matter.
Follow those people.
God does both the making and saving. He creates each of us by Christ Jesus to join him in the work he does, the good work he has gotten ready for us to do, work we had better be doing. Ephesians 2:10 The Message
I told you so.
Our summer garden is coming right along.
This is our bean patch. We’ve got climbing pole beans in the front. You can see that the pole beans have gotten to the top of my makeshift bean-o-matic. So I just thought I’d encourage the growth some more by extending the twine from that bean-o-matic over to the fence.

Our amazing tomato plants continue to explode. Our yellow tomato plant is now over 10 feet tall! The harvest has officially begun. I have a feeling we will be giving away a lot of tomatoes.
Cucumbers, eggplant, jalapeño, green pepper, and sweet corn are just weeks away.
BONUS QUESTION:
What the heck is this flower growing in our garden? Identify this flower and win.

A few years ago I was talking to a senior pastor about youth ministry. In a moment of honesty he said something like this.
“I don’t get it. Tell me why you want to work with high school students your whole life. You’re qualified to be a senior pastor. You have all the qualities people look for in a senior pastor. And your teaching style moves high school students to a type of faith that most churches would love. Plus, you could be the boss and you’d make a lot more money. What don’t I see?”
The truth was that it took me by surprise because I’d never been asked that question. I’ve only been asked it’s annoying cousin, “When are you going to be a “real” pastor?”
Here’s a summary of what I told him:
How would you have answered this question?