I think I’d like to get this one.
HT to Marko
There is really no reason for the monkey, I just thought the colors and all were a lot of fun. So, Light Force students… expect me to stuff a handful of these in your hands Sunday morning.
Tonight we are starting something new. In a lot of way I wish I had access to this new thing years ago. At Romeo, we say “small groups are where life change happens.” And I am entering into this new study, Life Hurts… God Heals, truly praying to see that come to life. I long to see this study connect hurting students to a God who heals.
Will you pray with me that life-change will occur as we help our students deal with some realities in their lives? Will you pray that as we deal with the “real stuff” in their lives that they will open themselves up to the healing that comes from God?
Why are you teaching this? Let’s face it, 100% of us and 105% of our students are hurting somehow. I want to equip them with the skills to face their “stuff” and I want to equip them with the skill to help their friends face their stuff.
Want to learn more about what we’re teaching? Check out this link
Want to see your student get involved? We’d love to hear from parents or students, shoot me an email or leave a comment. mclanea@gmail.com
A quiet Saturday planned for our house. I’ve got some reviews to finalize and stuff like that, I’m going to work on the podcast for YMX… but other than that, I’ll probably just be doing normal Saturday stuff all day. My big trip out is going to be for water softener salt. You know you’ve got a lame day planned when that’s on the agenda.
As I drink my coffee and get ready for the day, here are the next 10 songs being piped into my eardrums courtesy of iTunes. As always, I’m just hitting the shuffle button and writing down the next 10 songs that come up, ratings included.
I want to talk about something that isn’t about my church. I want to react against something that I’m hearing about “the church.” As in, churches like ours on a national and worldwide level.
The phrase I’m hearing is something like “The church is headed the wrong direction as they worry too much about being relevant in the culture.” It comes across in different ways, but if you look through my comment section you’ll come across it in its various forms.
Here is what they are really saying: “The church should be about Christians more than it is about non-Christians.” Here is a sermon that seems to push this view. In fact, Jesus’ church has a two-fold mission– Reach the lost, teach the found.
Here is what Jesus says about people who think they own God: Matthew 23
Here is why they are saying this: Fear. There is great fear among “church people” about people who are not Christians. They think that “they” will corrupt their children. They think that “they” will change their polite and sterile world. They are afraid new people in their lives will change how they feel in a church service. They are afraid “they” will effect how they spend their ministry time. In short, they are afraid of being effective and doing the ministry of Jesus. And their fears are mostly true… if you live like Jesus instructs in the Bible it will ruin the safe life they want.
Here’s how they scare people: They say people like me mis-interpret the Bible. We may have gone to the same schools… we may have sat in the same classes… but we heard two different messages. Their message is that Jesus is for people like them. The message I heard was that Jesus was for anyone. They heard you should contextualize Bible teaching to the church. I heard I should contextualize Bible teaching for the people I’m trying to teach.
Here is why it is sad. I’ve told people about the exciting out-pouring of God at places like Mars Hill and Elevation where thousands of people have been introduced to a life-changing, life-flipping relationship with the Living Christ and instead of praise on their lips they cast scorn and doubt at the leaders. I learn ministry skills from good men and women at places like Willow Creek, Saddleback, and North Point and people say “But they do something unapproved somehow… you are a bad person for learning from them. You shouldn’t go learn from them or read what they write or do ministry how they do it.” Yet they’ve never met those people, attended their services, or examined anything for themselves. What they think of these churches is based purely on fear-mongering. They are fearful that something like that could happen in their “safe church.”
Here’s what I think: I think that the church, including my own, should use redemptive analogies to reach people. I think the church is called by Jesus to engage the culture. I think Christians are called to be like Jesus, who modeled incarnational living. (That’s fancy church talk for… Jesus came from Heaven and walked among us, ate among us, and was “like us.”)
What do you think? Even if you never go to church. I want to know what you think. Even if you are one of “them” I want to know what you think. (Really, I meant Pharisee in a nice way!)
Last week I made a new friend because of the blog. Blogs are funny like that. As I talked to this person on the phone she told me she loved my quote on the top of my header. It says “Crazy enough to want to change the world.”
The quote is personal to me. Before coming to Romeo, we served at a church in California. The church really wasn’t my style but Kristen and I thought… maybe God could use us there? My mission (as agreed to) in getting hired there was two-fold. First, disciple the Christian kids in the church. And second, reach the lost students of that community.
The experience there was a nightmare. At one key meeting an elder scowled at me and said something like, “You know what the problem with you is? You are naive and stupid enough to think you can change the world. You walk around here as if the things you do really matter.” Later, as the meeting ended I said something like, “I am stupid and crazy enough to want to change the world. I believe with every core of my being that I was created in Christ Jesus to do good works. Reaching the lost of this community is a good work. It is crazy and it is stupid to think that one person could change the world, I’m OK with that. I’d rather be labeled crazy and lead people to reach the lost than sit here and do nothing.”
In that moment, my mind was made up. The journey to Romeo was underway.
When I told that story to my new friend, she was shocked. Later she sent me this quote:
“Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes, the ones who see things differently–they’re not fond of rules. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things. They push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world are the ones who do.”
It’s my hope that I’m helping to create a generation of people in this community that are crazy enough to think they can change the world around them.
What about you? Are you crazy enough to want to change your world?
This is insane. There is a ton of ice out there so we’ve been forced to cancel our 9:00 AM service.
Update: We’re canceling all services for the day. There’s a first time for everything.
I am sitting here at a local eatery quietly writing. Unintentionally, I’m observing the people around me. Here’s a fascinating observation about the world we live in.
Directly in front of me is a mother of a 1 year old interviewing a babysitter so she can go back to work. It’s pretty clear that this married mother of a one year old needs someone to talk to. For the last hour she hasn’t stopped talking. She has shared with this stranger all sorts of personal information dating back to getting pregnant with Elliot. I keep thinking, “Does this babysitter need to know all of this? Does any of this have anything to do with her role as a babysitter?” Of course it does. This mom wants to know that her babysitter understand her. She wants to know that she is hiring a co-parent. In a way, she is hiring a friend. She needs to know that this person is trustworthy. And for this lady, being trustworty includes listening to her yack for ours at a time.
More importantly, my observation is that there are a lot of lonely new mom’s out there. This mom needs a playgroup, she needs a Bible study, she needs a church family, and most importantly… she needs to get a life outside of Elliot.
The reality is that if people don’t have someone to talk to on a regular basis, they’ll go crazy. God created each of us to connect with others, we crave human interaction that is empathetic and just says “uh huh” 200 times per hour. It’s kind of like sleep… when we don’t get that on a regular basis we just data dump on the nearest person who will listen. In this case it’s a babysitter. But it could just as easily be her cable guy, the checkout person at the store, or a random person at Starbucks.
What can we all do to help this happen for new moms?
Back in November I posted a prayer request for Paul & Becky. I got an e-mail from them yesterday giving an update on their situation. A couple of praises:
Isn’t it cool when God answers your prayers?
Sidenote: Congratulations to other folks who had babies in the last 48 hours. Jason and Tracy Raitz welcomed Madison. And Brian and his wife welcomed a little girl this week as well. Must have been something in the water 9-10 months ago?