• session five notes

    most helpful session so far.

    Session 5: Michael Porter Focusing on trying to do good in the community.

    Main idea: How do you do well at doing good? How do you serve effectively?

    The church is an institution that is a unique aspect about our country… We try to help transform society.

    Principles that add more impact. Assumtion is that most churches are not very effective in all that they try to do. Ultimately, the church gets poor results.

    Most churches don’t think strategically. The effective ones do and provide measurements .

    Most of our doing good is about the do gooders and not the recipient… We must not fall into that trap. We must focus on results. Some philanthropic efforts actually do more harm than good.

    Questions for leadership groups: How does your organiAtion set goals? What are we trying to achieve? What area will we serve? Too many, less is better for results. How will we deliver value to the recipients? How do we align the people?

    Points about goals: Define value: social benefits per dollar value. If you can’t so it better than someone else, just give them the money to do it. You have a societal responsibility as we all pay for that tax deduction

    You must measure to guarantee effectiveness.

    How to decide where to serve your community -worthiness of the cause is a trap… That isn’t something your able to argue… All issues are important. -Partly… This comes from your passion. -chosing must be based on Where can I add the most social benefit? -this can be determined by assessing your community to discover the most pressing needs of you community. What other organizations are there? Reinventing the wheel with your name on it is a tragedy. OUTSOURCE!

    Internal question: What type of human resources do we have? This helps us know what we can actually do.

    Where can we add more than just unskilled labor? Where can we do more than give money? Where can we use our skills for social good?

  • Conference Inspiration

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    If you read my notes from yesterday you may think… Adam, you are wasting your time going to this conference.

    If all I were getting was their content, I’d agree. But here’s the thing about conferences. (I have 2-3 more to go to this fall as well.) When I am listening to a great innovator or a great teacher or a great marketer talk about his thing… it actually spurs on my ideas.

    An interesting thing happens to me when I sit and listen. I generally grab a legal pad and start coming up with some of the most clear, concise, and effective ideas I will ever get. It’s an amazing thing as a speaker is doing his/her thing and it triggers this thought that I furiously write down.

    At NYWC during a message I came up with our identity formation thing I call "Light Force 101."

    At the Summit 2006, MainStreet was born. As were several things that made Light Force tick last school year.

    At NYWC 02, my "pop quiz" review was born.

    The Acts message series of 2006-2007 was born at Founder’s Week 2005.

    On and on. Right now I have so many projects swirling around for the ministry of Romeo that I need this time to get clarity. So there is the very practical "good stuff" of a conference in that I get encouragement and can network and recharge… but these conferences are also a major innovation time for me as well.

    It’s time spent that pays massive dividends for me.

  • The Summit, Day 1

    Well, day 1 was pretty much what I expected. A couple good sessions and one that was a sleeper. (Who decides to put the boring one after lunch?) Anyway… here are my notes. These are super raw and will provide perhaps far too much insight to how my brain works.

    Session 1
    Bill Hybels: John 10 casting vision.

    The most compelling vision is worthless without corporate ownership. Are people willing to
    die for the vision of the church? Its all about process.

    Mt Sinai vision casting vs. Team vision casting. Lead by the question
    of where do you see our organization in the next 5 years?

    Subsequent vision process: ask people what they think of your first
    vision draft. What excites you? What scares you? What are your secret
    concerns? Then adjust!
    Vision declaration: people have lives… You need to remind them of
    the vision consistently and often because they forget the vision.
    Would you be willing to die for your own vision? Are you an owner or
    an employee? Acts 21 Paul was willing to be bound and killed for God’s
    vision for Jerusalem… Are you willing to pay the price? It is the
    difference between your people following the vision and not.
    Bill closes with an example of how he sacrificed for the WCA vision.
    You have to own the vision… Be an owner and not a hireling.

    I thought Hybels did a fine job. He set the pace for the rest of the sessions to come. Jason said when he was done, "OK, I heard what I needed to hear." That’s worth the price of admission right there.

    Session 2:
    Carly Fiorina

    • Learning from various disciplines prepared her for leadership.
    • She quit law school because she didn’t love it. This was hard because she had to disappoint her parents.
    • Teamwork makes things fun. Its more fun to win together.
    • Since she was an anxious child, fear was a big part of her life. As a result she has learned to detect fear as well how to overcome it as a manager.
    • The complexity of being a female leader in a male world. She told a story about a meeting and confronting someone who wanted to close a deal at a strip club.
    • Her strategy for being a female in a male world. Any type of prejudice comes from fear. Next, it isn’t your problem… Instead find common ground and focus on your goal.
    • Motivation is the measurement of a leader. Leading is about new directions.
    • Give people a compelling reason to  believe that the vision is worth the pain.
    • Deal with the realities of the process.
    • Unlocking potential in people is a massived motivator… Take a chance on others.
    • Leadership development never ends… There is something to learn from everyone… Even bad experiences.
    • Put people outside their comfort zone to develop.
    • Dispassion is an important factor of a leader… Objectivity helps you see what needs to be done. It helps you make the right choice.
    • She talks about getting labeled the most powerful woman in business. She calls it a joke… But was flattered as well. She felt like that fame made her lonely. It killed her authenticity…
    • They started seeing a label instead.
    • The phrase the HP WAY became a hinderance instead of a motivator. It became an excuse to stop innovation.
    • Risk taking is part of the dna of an innovator.
    • When the end came… Chicago 2005.
    • Some internal business got leaked to the WSJ and that caused a major issue. When she confronted the parties… She was fired.
    • It was done in a back room meeting way.
    • She was asked to resign in a way similar to the ministry way… But she chose to not sell out and told the truth to the media. She said she wouldn’t sell out her character. At the end of the day integrity is more important than keeping her job. The truth was more important than saving face to the media.
    • "there is a gift in everything."
    • She is now experiencing freedom… Which she relishes.
    • Currently she is looking to find what’s next for her full time. In that sense she is waiting.
    • Bill closes by praying for Carly.

    I thought the interview was solid but I wondered if I had just read her book if I would have gotten more out of it.

    Session 3 was with Floyd Flake. I am sure he is a remarkable man. But he didn’t say anything I thought was remarkably applicable to my ministry or leadership development. I love the concept of community development and hope to one day unleash that concept in our town… because we desperately need it.

  • Blogging the Summit

    Tomorrow I’ll join a few thousand folks at the local satellite of Willow Creek’s Leadership Summit. Last year’s was quite good. I am really looking forward to getting challenged to think and act like a better leader. I am also looking forward to blogging my thoughts.

  • My kids are speed demons

    This week my kids tagged along on my favorite youth group trip of the year, we just call it "Michigan’s Adventure." Actually, it’s a camping trip where we spend one day at a small amusement park and one day canoing in rural Michigan.

    Kristen and I spent all day Monday at the park hanging out with our kids. What was so fun is the expression on Paul’s face as he experienced his first roller coasters. He went on all the rides they would let him on and just squealed with joy as they twisted, turned, dropped, and spun. When we got off the big swing thing I asked Paul about it and he said, "This is my favorite, I felt my butt go in the air." It was then we knew we had created a monster! Later, I took Megan on the kids roller coaster called "Zack’s Zoomer." As soon as we were done we decided to try it with Paul… and he loved it! In fact, he made us get right back on it and do it again.

    Being a youth pastor is unlike a lot of gigs out there in that my "work" needs to see my family. It may seem like a cheesy excuse to bring my kids, but it is clear that it is healthy for my kids to be around my work. I don’t do it often but this is one trip they get to come on.

    Having them along for the ride (and other events where we invite the whole family) is helping me see the importance of this thing called "family ministry" and it’s relationship to a healthy youth ministry.

  • The Battle is On!

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    We just got back from our Light Force trip (more on that later) and I thought I would quickly post this. Sunday morning went exceedingly well. It was one of those things, like MainStreet last week, where God showed up and the Holy Spirit did something while I was just being me… as inadequate as always. At least, that’s my theory.

  • a fast 5 years

    Lf005bThis afternoon I was doing a little reflecting and I realized that Kristen and I have been in full-time ministry for just over 5 years. Meaning, for the past 5 years our only income has come from being employed by a local church. (I had paid roles prior to that, just not my sole income source.)

    This picture is from my first VBS in Romeo in 2003… right after we got here. I’m still that sexy.

    I have a lot of thoughts about what that means. First, I recognize that I’m way above the average length of a pastoral career. There seem to be two types of ministry folks… those who wash out quickly (2 years or under) and those who last a lifetime (15 years and up) My hope has always been to be in that latter category. Second, God’s people take care of their staff the best they know how. Leaving the corporate world and entering full time ministry was the biggest leap of faith Kristen and I had ever encountered. And our first experience landed us flat on our face 2000+ miles from home. But even in the disaster of "Horrorville" we were blessed by people who helped us greatly. (People who watched Megan, gave us food, clothing, vacations, fixed our car, and helped us out in many tangible ways.) Likewise, the people of Romeo have been faithful and loving to Kristen and I for more than 4 years. The first 1-2 years of being in ministry I was just humbled by the honor that a church would pay us to do something I love. And I can’t lie… 5 years later I’m still surprised that God would want me to do this and pay me enough to care for my family, too.

    Lastly, I am living proof that God qualfies whom He wants. I never want to be shy in telling people thatLf387 getting into ministry was hard work. (Most ministry people I know are extremely hard workers.) I did work hard to "get qualified" educationally. Kristen and I married at 21 and spent several years preparing to go into "paid ministry" and it wasn’t easy. My last couple years of Bible school were dreadful as I worked from 4 am til noon and then took afternoon and evening classes, plus had an internship, plus volunteered in other areas of the church. But I didn’t earn being in full time ministry any more than I am qualified to do it. (Well, I"m biblically qualified… that’s another qualification) There have been dozens of gut checks and temptations to get out of it. I’ve come to realize that I am in ministry not because I want to, or because I set out to, but because it’s God’ choice.

    That said, it’s been 5 years. I hope this is just the beginning. But I am also aware that since it was God’s choice to put me in ministry, it’s not really my choice as to how long I’m in ministry, is it? My job is just like anyone else’s. I’m called to do the best I can with where God has me right now. My future is in the same hands as my present.

    Not my will, but Yours.

    p.s. Yeah, that’s Mike D. as an 8th grader. He’s a senior this year and about 6-4. Yikes!

  • The love of laughter

    One of the things I appreciate about people is their ability to enjoy a good laugh. I’ve noticed that people who want to be friends with me like to laugh. And people who are very serious… they tend to tolerate me but never want to really be my friend.

    With that in mind, check out why I like the people over at Gospel Communications so much. (Click here and scroll down to the bottom, check out my name/title/company) They get it, and it just makes it super funny. I can’t wait to see that on my name tag in September.

    It’s another one of those moments when a 14 year old looks at me, giggles, and tells me to grow up.

  • Saturday Tunes

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    Sitting here at a local coffee shop this morning, sipping a mocha and nibbling on a bagel. I need to get back into this routine sooner rather than later. Today is a good day. Bob’s surgery went well. I’ve got my favorite youth group trip of the year leaving tomorrow. I’m going to a very encouraging conference late next week. And one of my favorite people is moving back to Romeo later next week. All of that leaves me in quite a mood today.

    Without further delay, here are the next 10 tunes piped into my cranium: (no cheating, ratings included)

    1. The Truth (Relient K) ***
    2. Omigod You Guys (Legally Blonde, the musical) *** Yeah… that’s embarrassing.
    3. Holy Heart (Charlie Hall) ****
    4. You’re Worthy of My Praise (Passion Band) *****
    5. Miss Sarajevo (U2) *****
    6. All the Earth (Passion Band) ****
    7. The Story (Brandi Carlile) *****
    8. Solto O Frango (Bonde do Role) ****
    9. Desire (U2) *****
    10. Possibilities (Santus Real) ****

    Two more thoughts…

    • Saturday shout-out to Dave. He’s having fun in Belfast and I wish I could be there.
    • I’m seriously thinking of adding a "Customer Service Report" column to my blog. This area is full of businesses that I frequent a lot. Some have great customer service and others… well, are like the place I went yesterday.
  • Pet Peeve: Church websites that don’t have addresses

    I spend a fair amount of time on a monthly basis looking around church websites. Such as, if I am looking at someone’s blog and I don’t know them and they have a link to their church… I’ll click on it.

    Here’s my pet peeve: Put your church’s mailing address somewhere easy to find! You’d be surprised to know that most churches don’t tell visitors what state they are located in.

    Come on, get with the program. If you work at a church stop right now and please make sure that within 2 clicks a person can find directions and your location.