Month: October 2007

  • 10-20-30 Tag

    Mykel tagged me and this one is pretty fun. So I’ll play along.

    October 1997
    Kristen and I were newly married and living a few blocks north of Moody as she finished her senior year. As we joke, she was late to a lot of classes back then. I was working for BlueCross and had just gotten hired full time. Kristen and I were attending Calvary but were barely involved. I remember one Sunday we took the train past our stop after church to go to a pet store and found ourselves right in the middle of the gay pride parade. That was pretty funny… a yuppy married couple with their bible’s walking past the gay pride parade. Man, we had fun the first year we were married. Every day was an adventure.

    October 1987

    I was in 5th grade at Swanson Elementary School in South Bend, Indiana. I was just getting settled into Swanson as my mom moved us out of the city and to Granger that summer. I had Mr. Hemminger for 5th grade. All I really remember from that year was his teaching us how bad smoking was by making some contraption where a bowl smoked itself.

    October 1977
    I was about 18 months old and don’t remember a thing. Pretty sure I was learning to read by then. I know I was working on calculus by 2 so I had to be wrapping up geometry.

    I’m tagging Jeremy, Raitz, and Todd.

  • The economy of hate

    The economy of hate

    I probably spend more time on the internet than anyone else I know. I’ll admit it, I’m a web dork. Let me try to spell out a trend I see on ministry websites, youth ministry sites, personal blogs, Facebook, and the rest of the social media/social networking map.
    If the news (Media 1.0) was subtitled “If it bleeds, it leads.” The citizen news (Media 2.0) could be subtitled “If it flames, it sells.

    Here’s a simple fact about the internet: If you want the easiest way to draw traffic to your site/blog/ministry/church all you have to do is flame people. Start a site about how much you hate something and you’ll draw traffic.

    My definition of “flame” on the net:
    To bad mouth for the sake of creating discussion and more bad mouthing without ever checking the source to fact check.

    Example: I’m on the pastoral staff at my church. In 5+ years of full time ministry I can only think of 1-2 times when someone came to me in public or private and bad mouthed me. (Rumor mill doesn’t count since that’s ignored) But on the internet it happens many times a year. Obviously this happens because it’s not face to face, it doesn’t seem “real” and it is thought that things written on the internet don’t count as much as things said in person. (Uh, they still hurt!)

    Why is this?
    Here’s the way most stuff on the web works. I write about something and then the reader either talks about it or doesn’t. And people are more likely to link to or forward something that is dirty than they are something that is benign, informative, or encouraging. That’s just the nature of communicating in the new media. The result is that some people write purely to be read and since “flaming sells” they know that flaming people/ministries/churches will draw more notoriety, traffic, and ultimately income.

    Normal content + traffic = $1

    Hate content + traffic = $5

    That’s pretty much what it looks like. If your site or blog flames someone you’ll get more traffic. If you do it habitually you’ll grow like mad. Look at Digg.com for example. (Chris Garret talked about this today) The only time my stuff gets on Digg is if I either post it myself or if I say something considered flame worth.

    Another example: 18 months ago I wrote an article about why I don’t do retreats anymore. It wasn’t really a flame but it was slanted away from the camping industry. It got 4,000+ reads. Jason Raitz wrote the counter to that article… it only got read 1,000 times. A couple weeks ago we published an article called “Why most mission trips are a waste of time.” Forget the fact that the article was written 2 years ago… even though we’ve published pro-mission trip articles before… Noel’s article got mountains of traffic. (Compare the comments alone)

    So are you saying that all blog traffic is drawn to flame speech? Not at alljust among “normal content.” When you say something that is remarkable, the math looks like this:

    Remarkable content + traffic = $10+

    Which leads to my point… most people write hate/flame based content because they don’t have the guts/brains/skills to write something remarkable. In other words, it is easier to draw traffic with flame-worthy content than it is to draw traffic with remarkable content.

    Adam’s Law of Traffic: Write something remarkable and everyone will talk about it. Write about something you hate about someone and some people will talk about it. Write about normal stuff and only your mama will talk about it.

    (more…)

  • Fall’s Arrival

    Yesterday was nearly perfect in Romeo. Temperatures in the 60-70s all day, Paul and I burned some leaves and other yard waste. We had the windows open. We wore shorts.

    That was yesterday. This morning the thermometer reads 48 and there is a solid drizzle. It was just a matter of time before Fall descended on us… as always there is a fair amount of denial that Fall will lead to Winter.

    This week we need to batten down the hatches and put all the summer yard stuff away in the back garage. It won’t be long now. S-N-O-W will arrive at least once before Thanksgiving. (Probably not stick!)

  • Will Facebook die like MySpace?

    Myspace
    When ads, then adults, then porn took over MySpace
    the number of users died quickly as people looking for social networking fled to newly opened Facebook. While there were a lot of factors for the death of MySpace, too many ads was clearly one of the issues.

    Facebook
    On November 16th, 2006 I posted that I thought MySpace was dying. (If you google the term "myspace dying" I’ve been #1 on that search term ever since and get 1-2 hits on that term daily.) People thought I was crazy! But in the end I was right… most people I know who switched to Facebook quickly drop their MySpace.

    The problem for every online community
    As a web developer there is a tenuous balance between creating community and monetizing the site. On the one hand the community wants no advertising. But at the same time they want the place they hang out with be free. Users demand a cool experience… one that costs lots of time and money to provide… and they don’t want anyone to get paid for it. I know this personally because this is the same tension we feel at YMX all the time… for most sites, the investors win out of the community, and ads slowly take over.

    The death of Facebook is two-fold

    1. Facebook applications are killing Facebook. In May 2007, Facebook started allowing 3rd party developers to add application to the site. Almost immediately the became annoying. All of a sudden applications could produce dozens of annoying emails to users without their permission. With every Facebook application developed, people get less interested. What drew people to Facebook was the simplicity… what will drive them away is over-customization.
    2. Ads will kill Facebook. Application developers, like Slide, want to get paid for their efforts. I can’t blame them for wanting to put ads in their applications but at the same time, it’s going to create a big problem that will drive people away from Facebook.

    Google
    Slide is just one of many developers trying to sell advertising in
    widgets. While Slide sells its own sponsorships, several application
    developers have opted to use ad networks for monetization. In fact, the
    latest mover in the widget-as-media-network space is none other than
    Google.
    Read the rest at AdAge

    Here’s my prediction
    If Facebook doesn’t slow down developers adding applications and cut off ads on applications, users will switch to another social network with less ads and less annoyance. It’s all about permission… people will display advertising on their sites and they will receive emails from sites… but they want to give their permission to do that. Remove the permission and they will remove themselves.

    (more…)

  • 5 Reasons Why Today Rocked

    5

    1. Megan and Paul were awesome today. Behavior has been fantastic with mom out of town.
    2. Kristen finished her half marathon in record time. (Well, it was her first… but she finished!)
    3. The weather in Romeo is perfect.
    4. Church today was great! The message series is especially relevant to what our community is experiencing.
    5. People we’ve been praying would come to church, came today. How cool is that?
  • Mobile Blogging Survey

    I could use your help… I’ve started live blogging events and my life more and I am interested to know what my readers think. There are just two questions to this survey but they would help me greatly.

  • Top 10 Things Written in Memo of Offering

    This isn’t from Romeo, but it is pretty funny. Just an FYI to folks at our church… we don’t care what you write in the memo line. Whatever you feel led to write, write!

    10. Gross, not net—as usual!

    9. Hush Money

    8. Casino winnings!

    7. For voice lessons for worship team!

    6. Thanks for last night…

    5. This equals 12%

    4. Don’t cash before Wednesday

    3. $1 less for every minute past noon

    2. Please don’t spend on crack, again.

    1. NOT for children’s ministry!

    HT to Todd Rhoades

  • Dad is making dinner


    Or something like that. mom is getting ready for her big race and dad is in charge!

  • Number 18 plays and scores 3 goals


    I can’t explain it but suddenly paul decided to play today. he hd a blast and scored 3 goals… and checked a kid who got too close to him. that’s how paul rolls.