UPDATE: cranky ass high school students

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Adam McLane

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Well, I’ve got a better finger on what’s going on then I did yesterday. It seems that my problem with the guy dating another girl is all related to the crankiness I’ve been seeing from all the main girls in the youth group. Sometimes I just need to get hit in the head with the truth before I see it. (I talked to the boys parents about the relationship… We are all on the same page… phew!)

One girl used to like the boy and seems to be POed that he’s seeing someone now and it isn’t her. Then it spread. So I’ve spent a long day trying to put my nose somewhere where it doesn’t want to go. Every once in a while I get a glimpse of just how intense adolescent emotions are! How could I have forgotten?

This made for a pretty interesting worship team practice! We almost had one of those big sit down type family meetings. But in the end I decided to take care of it privately.

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2 responses to “UPDATE: cranky ass high school students”

  1. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    I hope that you don’t think that was the entire situation. What happened in the end wasn’t that I wasn’t all mad that it was her and not me, but rather, he never told me that he didn’t want to be with me anymore and just started hanging out with her more than i was comfortable with. i confronted him and he said “well i didn’t want to hurt ur feelings, but your a christian and i don’t want to defile you. so i like ******* now and i don’t want to do things with you anymore.” so ya. i felt incredibly stupid, angry, and upset. that is so wrong on so many levels. and then he tells me later “i didn’t know how emotional girls are until now” and “you wouldn’t understand because you’re a girl” wut kind of bs is this? so ya. hopefully you understood this.
    belchingbabe

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  2. PA Avatar
    PA

    Yes, I understand your side of it. But from where I was at that point in history, I had it pretty much nailed. Sorry if that’s a shocker! All of the crankiness was coming from one simple fact… it wasn’t you. It just spread from there.

    But we’ve already hashed all this out. Plus, you shouldn’t be searching people’s blog for posts that are months old!

    Do your homework! 🙂

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