Author: Adam McLane

  • (Less) sex, (less) drugs, and the smartphone

    (Less) sex, (less) drugs, and the smartphone

    New research is suggesting that married couples are having less sex than in the past.

    New research is suggesting teenagers are abusing fewer substances.

    Both studies point to the smartphone as a possible reason: The smartphone.

    When looking only at married people, the drop was even sharper — from around 73 times a year in 1990 to around 55 in 2014 — bringing their frequency of sexual activity below that of never-married people. People in that group have sex an average of 59 times a year. (Washington Post) 


    But researchers are starting to ponder an intriguing question: Are teenagers using drugs less in part because they are constantly stimulated and entertained by their computers and phones?

    The possibility is worth exploring, they say, because use of smartphones and tablets has exploded over the same period that drug use has declined. This correlation does not mean that one phenomenon is causing the other, but scientists say interactive media appears to play to similar impulses as drug experimentation, including sensation-seeking and the desire for independence. (New York Times)

    Now, let’s be careful, researchers are merely suggesting this as a hypothesis at this point. They are correlating the rise in smartphone use among teenagers and adults to decreases in substance abuse among teenagers and sexual activity among adults.

    But it is an interesting correlation nonetheless. 

    Over the past few years I’ve tossed out a similar hypothesis at my parent workshops… if we take the phones out of our bedrooms we will probably have a better sex life.

    But should we extend that to say that teenagers should spend more time on their phones so they’ll smoke less weed? Probably not. 

    In Tuning In we explore this… well, not these scenarios exactly, but we explore the idea that when and where you tune in to what’s happening on your smartphone is nearly as important as developing sacred places in your life that you tune out of technology altogether.

  • Why I Wrote Tuning In

    Why I Wrote Tuning In

    “So, why did you write this book?”

    Here’s two things you need to know right off the bat.

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  • Dear Neglected Blog Readers

    Dear neglected blog readers,

    I’ve not forgotten you. I love you. I’m thankful for your patience. I’m hitting the final stages for the launch of my new book, Tuning In: Six Ways to Reclaim Your Life from Technology.

    It’s a book five years in the making, I love it and I think you will, too. It’s based on research and introspection and– to sound like a Presbyterian preacher for a second– I think the timing of its release couldn’t come at a better time as we, as Christians, wrestle with sorting out what it means to live a life online.

    There are two parts: 

    • The book, Tuning In: Six Ways to Reclaim Your Life from Technology
    • The free companion, Technology Tune Up: Six Steps to Reclaiming Your Life from Technology 

    More soon.

    Adam

  • I can’t wait for the new book to come out!

    I can’t wait for the new book to come out!

    As my new still nameless book makes it’s way through the editorial process I am getting more and more excited for a few specific reasons:

    1. It’s the book I had to write, not the book the market was demanding I write. I’ve not done well over 100 parent workshops and along the way I’ve learned that people’s felt need is to want to know “how” about social media.  “How do I do this? How do I keep my kids from that? But along the way I’ve taken the time to really listen and come to the conclusion I think that they need to spend time thinking about “why.” The new book takes you uncomfortable places and requires you to ask “why” a lot.
    2. It’s timely. Particularly in this crazy political season I’m concerned about who is engaging in the conversation, who isn’t, and how we can all do it better. I think the book provides a framework for every Christian to engage with people in a way that reflects their Christian witness.
    3. It’s hopeful help. The book provides a way for people to recalibrate their lives to include, but not be overwhelmed by, social media. The current narratives and solutions don’t work… I think we can all agree on that. So I take a look  backwards to point readers to a more healthy relationship with social media and technology going forward.

    A friend who read the manuscript highlighted this quote from the introduction as a summary of the book:

    “The goal isn’t guilt, it’s action.

    I believe each of our personal callings in life are far too important to waste our lives tuning into the wrong things.”

    Hopefully, soon we’ll have the title and cover ready. Until then, if you’re on Goodreads, I’d love to connect there.

  • Wemo Mini Smart Plug Review

    Wemo Mini Smart Plug Review

    The Tiny Office is great. But, at it’s core, it is a shed. And even though it’s well insulated it gains and loses heat quickly which means that during harsh San Diego winters, with lows nearing 40 degrees, you need a little heat. And during the summer you need a little A/C.

    The problem? The office doesn’t have a thermostat. And the office is “way out there” when I’m in my nice cozy bed sleeping. That’s where the Wemo Mini Smart Plug comes in handy.

    I can manually turn on the little heater or A/C with an app on my phone. Or I can use IFTTT to schedule it to turn on. Or, even more awesome, I can also use IFTTT to automate turning it on an off based on days of the week and outside temperature.

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  • Leadership is Local

    Leadership is Local

    The grave danger is to disown our neighbors. When we do so, we deny their humanity and our own humanity without realizing it; we deny ourselves, and we deny the most important Commandments of Jesus. Herein lies the danger, the dehumanization. But here we also find an opportunity: that the light of the love of neighbor may illuminate the Earth with its stunning brightness like a lightning bolt in the dark; that it may wake us up and let true humanity burst through with authentic resistance, resilience and persistence.

    ~ Pope Francis, February 17th, 2017 – Message to popular movements meeting in California

    Some of what I explore in my new book is a recalibration in my life, distinguishing between things that seem important in a 24/7/365 world and what’s really important.

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  • My Neighbors, My Congregation, My Love

    My Neighbors, My Congregation, My Love

    “‘Do not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in their guilt.

    “‘Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.

    Leviticus 19:17-18

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  • Perfectly Abnormal

    Perfectly Abnormal

    This morning my 13-year old got up at 6:00 AM to go on a training run with his mom. Pretty soon he’ll run in his first half marathon. After he got home, he showered and got ready for school, cooking himself breakfast along the way like he normally does. Then, like just about every 8th grader in the world, he grabbed his backpack and begrudgingly went to school.

    This is our 13-year old.

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  • Truth in an Age of Fake News

    Truth in an Age of Fake News

    The past few months have been wild, right?

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  • New stuff from the Cartel Publishing Line

    New stuff from the Cartel Publishing Line

    It’s been a wild two-weeks for our Cartel publishing line as we get into 2017.

    We’re continuing to gain traction for our two lines of downloadable curriculum, Viva and Next. That’s fun to see.

    Earlier this month we announced that after several years of seeing diminishing returns from Amazon.com we’ve now broken up. You can still get our books via Amazon Kindle but we’re no longer distributing our books directly through them because we lost a bunch of money.

    One of the awesome things this means is that we’re going to offer better shipping rates, including months like January where we’re offering free shipping on every single order.

    And this month we’re launching three new physical books.

    Mission Tripping by Danny Kwon

    This is a book and companion interactive journal

    Here’s what I like about Mission Tripping. Tons of youth ministries do mission trips. Tens of thousands of them each year. Over the years I’ve been on and lead a whole bunch of them.

    I’m here to tell you: There are really great mission trips. And there are really crappy ones who do more harm than good.

    What’s the difference? The youth worker. Mission Tripping is truly comprehensive in that it helps you ground your mission trip in solid theology, theory, and practice. You need to know how to find the right trip for your group, you need to know how to manage all aspects of that trip, you need to know how to have a great trip, and you need to know how to help cement learning with follow-up.

    You can save $3 on Mission Tripping if you order today with the pre-release coupon code of MTBLOGGING

    Leading Without Power by Mark Oestreicher

    It’s about time, right? Marko created the Cartel publishing line five or so years ago but hadn’t, until now, published a full-blown book on his own line! (We did publish a curriculum, Every Picture Tells a Story: 2013 Edition) He and I both took some time in 2016 to go on a writing retreat and hammer our new titles. (More on my new book another day) And I’m really excited about what he’s come up with. It’s super useful for people who aren’t the #1 leader on a church staff but as definitely still leaders.

    Here’s a snippet of the description:

    Hierarchical, coercive leadership should have no place in the church.

    But if we move away from those unbiblical (and ineffective) forms of power-based leadership, we still need to lead. In Leading Without Power, Mark Oestreicher explores—in very pragmatic ways—what it might look like for us to replace power-based leadership modalities with other approaches.

    Leading Without Power unpacks nine metaphorical job titles, with stories and examples of what it looks like to embody these mindsets and practices.

    You can read the rest of the description, see the crazy good endorsements, or place your pre-order at this link. You can save $2 per copy if you pre-order Leading Without Power by January 31st with coupon code: getlwp