Category: Church Leadership

  • 3 common responses to Megachurches

    There are a lot of responses to megachurches. You know, these are the really big churches in our country… some of them with more than 10,000 weekly attendees.

    One thing I’ve noticed is that Christians have a fascination with these places. Willow Creek, Saddleback, North Point,  Lakewood, etc. It seems as though everyone has an opinion about successful churches. I think we can shorten these responses to 3 categories:

    1. Ignore completely.  Nothing interesting to look at or think about.
    2. Accuse of wrong-doing. To be that successful they must have made a deal with the devil like the old movie Crossroads.
    3. Principlize all that they do.  To get results like they do, we have to make principles out of all that they do.

    What do you think? Are there more responses to this that I’m missing?

  • Interior Signs are Here

    This is something someone like me gets excited about. We ordered new interior signs for the church building… and they are here! The pictures here are from my phone so the quality doesn’t do them any justice. But when we get them mounted it’s going to look smoking cool.

    kidstown welcome signinterior signs 3

    The big one of the left will go behind the welcome counter to our kids ministry. It’s HUGE and the quality of it doesn’t come through in the picture. It’s so much cooler than we thought it would be. When Jimmy and I picked it up we sounded like broken records… “That is so cool.” “Wow, we love it.”

    The picture on the right are the signs for the elevator. Obviously the one on top goes in the “adult area” and the one below is for down in KidsTown.

    And for those who live locally, you’ll be seeing stuff that looks like this around town soon.  If you haven’t been to Romeo in the last two years or so, the interior is not like you’ve seen before. Most of the public areas have been completely remodeled. Shoot me an email and I’ll show you around.

  • Pastors and Friendships

    Super FriendsSometimes you come across a blog series and you are just in awe of it. So obvious. So true. Wish I had written it. Here’s a current series by Craig Groeschel of Lifechurch.tv.

    Craig speaks from 20+ years of experience as a pastor about something that is hard on a most of us, friendships.

    If you’ve ever wanted to pull the curtain back and see one of the many stresses that I deal with, take a few minutes to read Craig’s posts.

  • Is the Church Headed in the Wrong Direction?

    I want to talk about something that isn’t about my church. I want to react against something that I’m hearing about “the church.” As in, churches like ours on a national and worldwide level.

    wrong wayThe phrase I’m hearing is something like “The church is headed the wrong direction as they worry too much about being relevant in the culture.” It comes across in different ways, but if you look through my comment section you’ll come across it in its various forms.

    Here is what they are really saying: “The church should be about Christians more than it is about non-Christians.” Here is a sermon that seems to push this view. In fact, Jesus’ church has a two-fold mission– Reach the lost, teach the found.

    Here is what Jesus says about people who think they own God: Matthew 23

    Here is why they are saying this: Fear. There is great fear among “church people” about people who are not Christians. They think that “they” will corrupt their children. They think that “they” will change their polite and sterile world. They are afraid new people in their lives will change how they feel in a church service. They are afraid “they” will effect how they spend their ministry time. In short, they are afraid of being effective and doing the ministry of Jesus. And their fears are mostly true… if you live like Jesus instructs in the Bible it will ruin the safe life they want.

    Here’s how they scare people: They say people like me mis-interpret the Bible. We may have gone to the same schools… we may have sat in the same classes… but we heard two different messages. Their message is that Jesus is for people like them. The message I heard was that Jesus was for anyone. They heard you should contextualize Bible teaching to the church. I heard I should contextualize Bible teaching for the people I’m trying to teach.

    Here is why it is sad. I’ve told people about the exciting out-pouring of God at places like Mars Hill and Elevation where thousands of people have been introduced to a life-changing, life-flipping relationship with the Living Christ and instead of praise on their lips they cast scorn and doubt at the leaders. I learn ministry skills from good men and women at places like Willow Creek, Saddleback, and North Point and people say “But they do something unapproved somehow… you are a bad person for learning from them. You shouldn’t go learn from them or read what they write or do ministry how they do it.” Yet they’ve never met those people, attended their services, or examined anything for themselves. What they think of these churches is based purely on fear-mongering. They are fearful that something like that could happen in their “safe church.”

    Here’s what I think: I think that the church, including my own, should use redemptive analogies to reach people. I think the church is called by Jesus to engage the culture. I think Christians are called to be like Jesus, who modeled incarnational living. (That’s fancy church talk for… Jesus came from Heaven and walked among us, ate among us, and was “like us.”)

    What do you think? Even if you never go to church. I want to know what you think. Even if you are one of “them” I want to know what you think. (Really, I meant Pharisee in a nice way!)

  • 30 Day Sex Challenge

    Relevant Church in Tampa, Florida has certainly attracted some media attention. Check out this challenge.

    • “An openly edgy Christian church is launching what they’re calling a 30-Day Sex Challenge to help members improve their relationships and rediscover themselves.”
    • “Single folks are to abstain from sex for 30 days…Married folks, on the other hand, are supposed to have sex every day for 30 days.”
    • “Relevant Church leaders know the campaign may shock, even disgust, some people in and outside the church. But that was the idea. Create a buzz about a topic a lot of people don’t like to talk about.”

    What do you think? (No debate here this is pretty close to what the Bible teaches about sex.) Is this too far ? Not far enough? Are right on with the culture?

    HT to Tim Stevens

  • Hope for Me Yet from Married Life

    I just featured this in the brand new weekly newsletter we’re sending out here at the church, and I want to share it with my readers since I know many of you are not yet on our e-mail list. This is our worship leader, Jimmy Savage, performing at our Married Life event last weekend.

    Feel free to join our free e-mail newsletter for a fresh video each week from romeochurch.com, a preview of this week’s services, and notes from last week’s message. Even if you don’t go to our church or live in our state… I think there will be something there each week worth checking out.

  • My Ministry Dip: Gaining Traction

    It’s winter… so this is a metaphor that anyone can understand.

    At Romeo, our tires are getting traction. As I reflect back on the last few years of ministry (my primary work) I can’t help but see where we’ve come and where we are headed.

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  • The Preference Wars of Church

    Perry Noble of NewSpring Church has a couple of funny, yet serious, points about heaven and the preference wars of church today.

    I was reading through Revelation a couple of weeks ago and I had this thought, “I really think that some people might not like heaven!” Especially when I got to Revelation 7:9-12…seriously, take a second to read that passage and then come back here as I share a thought or two about it. If people approach heaven the same way some approach church then here are my fears… 🙂

    #1 – For Some People Heaven Will Be “Too Big.” We have people that say, from time to time, “I really do like your church–except that it’s too big.” My reply is always the same, “Heaven isn’t going to be a small group/house church!”

    #2 – The Focus Will Be On Jesus…And That’s It! Apparently the music in heaven is going to be loud…and will not be sang out of the Baptist hymnal. (See verse 10–they cried in a LOUD voice…apparently they didn’t get the “reverence” memo!) No one will be asked in heaven, “Did you like the music? Was the sound too loud? Were you totally comfortable?” Nope–the focus will be on Jesus Christ…NOT consumeristic ego maniacs who church hop because they think everything exists for them. 🙂

    I think Perry is right. And I think he brings about the new battle in churches, personal preferences. If 1990-2005 were all about music wars 2005-present are all about preference wars.

    Should church be like Burger King and the parishioners be like Frank Sinatra?

  • I like it…

    I was sitting in the service today and I started thinking about things. I really like our service. I mean… sure, it’s not perfect, but I like it.

    Really, is there such a thing as “the perfect worship service?” I doubt that this side of heaven we won’t approach perfection. But right now I feel like we’re hitting a stride and I dig it.

  • Brick and mortar vs. Digital media

    barnes & nobleTonight Kristen and I spent an hour walking around our local Barnes & Noble. Each time I go there I have a recurring vision for what I am supposed to do with my life.

    I’m a messenger.

    I believe God has placed me on this planet to convey a message. And the most important part about being a messenger is that you need your message to be heard.

    What’s that got to do with the bookstore? 

    Imagine all the very important messages stuck in books you will never read? People walking around a bookstore pick up books for random reasons. The jacket design. A catchy title. Because the worker turned it out instead of in. Because someone picked it as something interesting to read.

    The point is, with 50,000 titles at the local bookstore… if you’re life’s mission were to convey a message… a bookstore sucks as a place to spread it.

    In my case, that translates into “find a better method to spread your message.