• The boys rule the Wii

    wii bowling

    As Kristen mentioned, yesterday we had a Wii bowling competition in our family. 4 competitors, 4 controllers, boys vs. girls.

    The entire game Paul (4) is talking mega-smack to mommy and Megan (6). We are all pretty good at bowling, but Megan and I are the best. I routinely get above 200 and Megan averages about 185.

    Megan would get a spare. Paul would get a strike. Mommy would get a strike. Daddy would get a spare. On and on this went, neck and neck. It was supremely close.

    In the last frame dad, mom, and Megan finished. We did a little quick math and discovered that they boys and girls were both tied. This meant that if Paul got a single pin, the boys would win.

    Paul stood up proudly, soaked in the situation, and proclaimed “it’s showtime.” He then proceeded to dial in a strike and win the game for the boys in style. Then he walked over to mom and Megan and told them, “That’s right. The boys rule the Wii!”

    Megan (first born, dominant) was quick to want to play again. I’m guessing this won’t be the last battle in our house with boys vs. girls.

  • Saturday Tunes

    saturday tunesAnother quiet Saturday for the McLane’s. OK, that’s a lie. I’ve got a bunch of videos left to edit for church tomorrow and MainStreet on Monday night. But that’s besides the point! Here are the next 10 tunes streaming into my ears this Saturday before Christmas. As always, no cheating (I just press shuffle and start writing) and my ratings are included.

    1.  Chanukah Song by Adam Sandler *****
    2. Wish You Well by TFK *****
    3. From the Inside Out by Hillsong United *****
    4. The Glory of it All by David Crowder Band ****
    5. You’re Worthy of My Praise by Passion Band ****
    6. Homeby Great Northern ****
    7. Awesome God by Chaz Shepherd ****
    8. Stand Up by Everyday Sunday *****
    9. The Rising Shout by Charlie Hall ***
    10. The Adventure by Angels and Airwaves ****
  • Nominations for Best of Youth Ministry 2007

    Best of 2007Over at YMX, we’re accepting nominations for “Best of 2007” from the world of youth ministry.

    Here’s the link.

    If you post your list on your blog and post the link in the comments section by 12/30/07, we’ll put your name in a drawing for a $25 gift card from Amazon. (Drawing on 12/31/2007) Don’t post your link here… post it here!

    Do I have to be “in youth ministry” to nominate? Nope. It’s open to anyone with an opinion. The only requirement to be in the drawing is that you have to post a link to your nominations in your blog/website.

  • R.E.M. and the President: End of the World

    HT to Boing Boing

    From the same people who did “Sunday, Bloody Sunday” comes this old REM classic.

  • 3 Things Big Name Bloggers Need to Learn from the Little Guy

     I have  a  mixture of blogs that I  read. Some of them, I am their only subscriber and others have thousands of  people whoBlog snob read their  stuff every day. Seth Godin‘s blog apparently has more readership than 95% of all magazines in the United States. In doing this every day I’ve made a couple of observations. You see, while these “blog celebrities” may be online moguls, they are generally not that famous. (Just making a couple hundreds bucks a day from Google to blog… or in Seth’s case, no money to blog as he refuses to have ads.)

    But there are a couple of things I don’t like about the big name bloggers. Even in the Christian world, big named bloggers take on an aura of superiority. They tend to communication that blog rules don’t apply to them when you get to be super big. Here’s three things that big named bloggers need to learn from small named bloggers if they want to remain on top. Because folks like me are getting annoyed and are going to drop you like a bad habit if you don’t straighten up and fly right.

    1. Leave comments on. I’ve noticed that once a blog hits about 1,000 subscribers they like to turn off comments and leave on trackbacks. (Some truly elite turn off both!) In other words, the blog owner wants you to send traffic to them and doesn’t want traffic to go to you. Once you turn off my ability to respond to your blog post it isn’t a blog anymore. Now you are running a consultancy or a business, but not a blog. Some say they don’t have time to respond to comments. They joy of commenting is that you don’t have to respond as your blog will take on a life of its own. I recently noticed a speaker from a conference on blogging who told his audience “If you don’t allow comments you aren’t blogging.” He is now only accepting trackbacks.
    2. Don’t forget you’re a human. One of the things I like about reading blogs is that you get a snapshot of a person’s life. Big name bloggers tend to stop writing personal thoughts, schedule snippets, and other stuff because they think it doesn’t pay well. (Yes, big named bloggers write with the purpose of drawing traffic and getting paid. The big trend now is to write the perfect eye catching subject line.)  One of the reason I am reading your blog, Mr. I Make $200/day on Adwords alone, is because I am curious about you. If you think I just want to read essays that aren’t good enough for your book, think again. Just be human.
    3. Ads are OK, just be upfront about what you are getting paid for. When I read a bloggers recommendation for a book, website, or any other product… I am automatically trying to figure out how that blogger is getting paid. (ebooks are the #1 culprit of this) Amazon affiliates, ad networks, and Google Adwords are all easy to spot. But I’m finding that a lot of these big named guys are getting paid to plug in about half their posts. (Or so it seems) That’s pathetic. Another thing I am noticing with big named bloggers is that they aren’t giving credit for their sources. Not only will they not link to a commenter, now they won’t link to their sources? Why is that? Oh yeah, because big name bloggers only want to link to things that increase their page rank and/or pay them.

    I’m a capitalist and I’m all in favor of new media and I’m perfectly fine with blogs becoming the most powerful medium on the internet. But I want to caution blog readers that while blogs may seem like citizen journalism, you have to be certain to ascertain a bloggers credibility.

    Do you know the ethical standards of journalism? Bookmark this page!

    Here’s the thing… most “big name blogs” are not journalist. They are marketers and they are profiteers. You have to use the same wisdom in reading a blog that you do in watching the news. At least in the news there is some editorial control. Blogs are like the old west of journalism… there are no sheriff’s in Blog County.

    No, I won’t name names. And no, I’m definitely not talking about any youth ministry blogger. In fact, the “big name” youth ministry bloggers that I read tend to be true gentlemen about all of this. Sure, some of them make money off their blogs… but they aren’t crossing the line. (yet!)

  • Our Christmas wish list for the church

    Romeo Church Wish List

    At Romeo, we dream big. We believe God is using us to reach into our community to make a difference in people’s lives. (Not that other churches are not!)

    At Romeo, we have crazy faith. I think the two are kind of linked… but I digress.

    This year we’ve put together a wish list of things that we can’t afford to purchase but would utilize and amplify what we do if we had them. In other words, these are things we wish we had the budget for but don’t.

    If you feel so inclined I invite you to buy one of these items as a gift to our church. As with any time I ask people to give… please don’t give us anything if you aren’t:

    • Giving biblically to your local church
    • In debt to the point where a gift like this would hurt your plan to get out of debt

    You may look at some of these items and think… why do they need a new camera? Why do they want a slush machine? Why buy that item when I can find something like it for cheaper? If that’s you, I invite you to leave a comment or shoot me an email.

  • Looking for a Wii for Christmas?

    Jason, the Fun Monkey himself, has the ultimate Christmas present for sale on Craigslist. It’s got a brand new Wii, Guitar Hero III and about 20 games.

    Here’s the link.

  • Light Force Christmas Party

    Yep, it’s finally here. One of the highlights of our calendar.

  • Stress of coming home for the holiday’s

    College AngstWe don’t have a lot of students away from home for college. But for those who go away, I recognize this as a tough time for young adults. (and parents)

    The students perspective: You live on your own.  You eat your meals with friends when you want. You take care of your stuff on your own. You clean your room when you and your roommate decide to. Essentially, you make your own rules on things like coming home and going here or there. You are coming home for a vacation of doing nothing… a reward for a hard semester. For most college students they feel like they’ve learned to manage this pretty well. Even if they aren’t good at it they are used to the freedom. It’s all about independence.

    The parents perspective: You may be a young adult but you are still my child. You aren’t renting the room, you are a member of a family.  You’ll abide by our rules. You’ll tell us when and where you are going. (Just like high school.) You’ll keep your room clean. You’ll eat with the family. You are expected to be productive when you are home. It’s all about being a part of the family.

    This is a recipe for stress.  The college students want to express new found freedom and parents want things to be like they were before.

    So, how do you manage this stress? What are some suggestions I could give to students home for the holiday? What is some advice you’d give to parents stressed out by their children being home?