The other day I was driving our truck on the way to pick up Kristen from work. Megan and Paul were in a mood and bickering in the backseat. Among other things Megan was kicking the front seat, annoying my passenger while laughing when I told her to stop. Dave, our house guest, was being good in the front with me.

In a moment of sheer evil I piped up over the bickering and told the kids a story.Hey guys, did daddy ever tell you about our other daughter?” Dead silence filled the car. “Yeah, she came before you Megan. (7 years old) One day we were driving along and she was being naughty. She wouldn’t stop kicking mommy’s seat and she wouldn’t listen to daddy when he told her to stop. So daddy stopped the car and left her on the side of the road. Then we had you two. You wouldn’t want to be like Tammy, would you?

There are a few moments in parenting when you’re certain you’ve said something that your kids will spend their twenties telling a counselor about. This was one of them.

Thankfully Megan saw right through it. So did Paul. (5 years old.) Megan said, “Daddy, that’s not true. You’re just trying to get us to stop being bad.” Paul chimed in, “Tammy isn’t real.” [pause] “Is she?

Laughter filled the cab and Dave exhaled loudly. He couldn’t believe I’d made up such a horrible tale!

I think Tammy may be around for a while too. Tonight, as Kristen was putting the kids to bed and reading about Joseph, Megan had an aha moment. “So Joseph was kind of like Tammy, right? An annoying member of the family that everyone wanted to get rid of?” Kristen somehow kept it together and agreed with her.

Then, as Kristen climbed out of Megan’s bed, my little girl had to get the last word.

Megan: Why did Tammy cross the highway?

Mom:I don’t know, why?”

Megan:To get to the other side after daddy left her.

I never claimed to be parent of the year.





9 responses to “Tammy”

  1. Mandy Avatar

    sounds like effective parenting to me! you guys are funny.

  2. Uncle Dave Avatar

    lol.. man i am wetting myself laughing still.. still can’t believe you’d mess with your kids minds like that.. lol
    man what a joke

  3. Kim Avatar

    I don’t know whether to laugh or report you! LOL Just wish I had thought of it myself!

  4. Jesse Avatar

    starting your “Father of the Year” campaign already? Vote for Adam!

  5. Ted Olson Avatar
    Ted Olson

    oh man Adam, you haven’t changed one bit. You truly give me some great ideas to shoot for when I’m a parent!

  6. Tonia Avatar

    I swear u have to be related to my mother somehow. Im sure she used the other kid trick sometime in my childhood 🙂

  7. Barb Avatar

    Don’t believe everything Tonia tells you. I would never do such a horrible thing. 🙂

  8. […] Tammy, our fictional daughter, has once again earned a lump of coal as her Christmas present. This is all she is getting on December 25th. You can tell her now. She’s firmly earned it with yet another year of bad behavior. Such a brat! […]

  9. […] Read the original Tammy story here […]

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