• What Haiti Taught Me About Nepal

    What Haiti Taught Me About Nepal

    Tony Jones wrote this:

    A standard issue in theodicy has been an attempt to protect the sovereignty of God. Consider that theological shorthand for the omni’s: omnipotence, omniscence, and omnipresence. Combine that with God’s benevolence and immutability, and you’ve got a divine being who’s a lot closer to Plato’s Nous than to Moses’ Yahweh.

    What if, instead, God is traveling through time with us?

    What if God abdicated all the sovereignty so as to give creation room to flourish?

    What if God is in a dynamic love-relationship with us, and both we and God are being changed as a result?

    If this is the case — and there’s ample biblical evidence that it is — then the earthquake in Nepal caught God by surprise. God is neither planning earthquakes nor sitting back and allowing them to happen. God is a victim of the earthquake because thousands of God’s beloved children perished.

    – Source

    For some folks, Tony is a troublemaker, some would even say he’s dangerous.

    But I think that’s because they don’t know him. I don’t claim to be close to Tony, but we’re acquaintances enough where I frame Tony more as an instigator than a troublemaker. (If you’ve met him you know he isn’t dangerous. Professorial? Yes. Dangerous? Nah.)

    He asks and says things that need to be said in a way that demands to be heard. He forces folks to think about what they’ve been taught and challenge assumptions, and in an age where everyone is circling the wagons around what they believe that’s a very good thing.

    I like the way Tony thinks and stirs me even if I don’t always agree. (Let me be blunt: I don’t want to be friends with only people I agree with. That’d be boring.)

    So, given what I know about Tony, his work, and even his most recent book– his post today didn’t take me by surprise.

    But I disagreed with him to the point where my Facebook comment stretched into 600 words… which is more of a blog post than a Facebook comment.

    Here’s my response for Tony, one that I don’t think he’ll be uncomfortable with and am positive he’ll dismiss as just a typical evangelical’s response: I think God’s ways are bigger than our ways. He acts at a level our processors can’t handle… And yes, He can even author an earthquake for His glory because He’s all those omni’s without the constraints of our philosophical limitations.

    He’s big enough for us to describe His actions as evil.

    And He’s “omni-enough” to be patient for us to get it.

    God is no more afraid of being blamed for what we perceive as evil than He’s excited about being constrained to the rigors of 20th century systematic theology’s attempt to define Him.

    My respectful disagreement isn’t born merely in my far-less-educated study of every theological vantage point.

    It’s informed by having walked down the same path already and allowing my experience to correct my incorrect thinking. (Something I believe would be good for Tony, as well.)

    The Surprise of Haiti

    I must confess that I wrestled with Tony’s concept in the aftermath of what happened in Port-au-Prince in 2010. Hearing about what happened and the wall-to-wall post-Earthquake television coverage shook my walk with God more than I was willing to admit in the moment. As news continued to roll in that the death count was thousands, then tens of thousands, then hundreds of thousands I started to doubt that God was truly good. In the aftermath I was left with big, gaping holes in a matter-of-fact, indoctrinated evangelical theology, kind of way.

    For lack of a better term– God disappointed me with what happened in Haiti.

    I was left blaming God because that’s where my theology lead me– then I quickly forced myself to walk back because I know God is ultimately good and benevolent and cannot, by His very nature, also be the author of something so tragic as mass loss of life. It was all so senseless.

    So I get what Tony is writing about. I really do… I don’t want to “blame God” for an earthquake because it just feels so un-God-like of Him. Morally speaking, blaming God for a natural disaster just feels wrong.

    But that changed when I went to Haiti.

    Walking among the rubble, seeing destruction no TV camera could convey, smelling the death still hanging in the air, I remember looking out the window of our beat-up white minivan and wondering to myself… “No… really… How could a loving God allow this to happen?” and even bigger “Where was God in that moment? Because He surely wasn’t here.

    As a witness I was left wondering if God was even there. But when we got out of the van and started talking to people, I realized that my judgement was grounded in assumptions about what was going on, not what was going on when you really talked to people and listened.

    The answers to those minivan questions took my breath away. Over and over again as we heard stories… our minds were blown to learn that He was right there with people, some of whom were believers but most of whom were not.

    God wasn’t surprised by the Haitian earthquake in 2010. Yes, many died. But even more were saved. Over and over again we heard people’s testimony that in the moment… literally with everything falling around them… they heard the voice of God. We heard testimony from people who can’t explain how they escaped, that they were picked up and carried out of a collapsing building.

    We met common people who had uncommon encounters with God that day. God wasn’t surprised. God wasn’t absent. He was fully present because that’s is, by His definition, who He is.

    More than five years after the earthquake in Haiti– the rubble is long gone. But what has endured is the revival that was sparked by the earthquake. To outside eyes it looked like an unloving God was responsible for the senseless loss of more than 200,000 people. But to people on the ground? I’ve heard five year’s of testimonies from people in Haiti that the earthquake was the closing of one chapter of a nations relationship with God and the beginning of a new one.

    As hard as it is to understand with humanity– usually the death of one thing leads to the birth of something new– new life was born out of death in 2010. We see it all the time in life’s great hardships. (Loss of a child, loss of a relationship, loss of a loved one, loss of an identity, on and on.) Death brings forth new life. It’s this universal expression of the Gospel which points us to an ultimately loving, knowing God who operates in dimensions we simply can’t comprehend.

    In Haiti… this is what you’ll hear from Christians and non-Christians alike:

    Where did people run to and find food and shelter in 2010? The church.

    Who was there to help? Christians.

    In the aftermath, who came down to help after the NGOs left? North American Christians.

    Who has continued to help re-build and now plant new churches? North American and Haitian Christians.

    Who is now sending missionaries to remote areas of their own country, neighboring islands, and even the United States? Haitian Christians.

    To quote a friend of mine, Sister Mona at Good Shepherd Orphanage in Carrefour, “The earthquake was a wake up call.

    In the aftermath of Haiti no one would have blamed Haitians for seeing only darkness and despair. But what actually emerged? Hope and new life.

    In closing, I don’t claim to know what’s going on in Nepal. But my experience in Haiti over the past five years has confirmed for me, beyond my own comfort level, that God was not surprised by the earthquake in Nepal.

    He was right there, loving His children like He always does.

    My hope and prayer for Nepal is the same today as my hope and prayer was for Haiti in 2010: That the Author and Finisher of all things, life itself, is revealed through the earthquake and it’s aftermath.


     

    Get Involved

    Tony ended his post by linking to some resources to get involved with Nepalese relief efforts. Here’s the link.

    If you want to get your church or youth group involved in World Vision’s relief efforts, here’s the link.

    And if you would like to learn more about taking a team to Haiti, to be a part of the work I described in this post, fill out the form below.

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  • An Ecosystem for Success

    An Ecosystem for Success

    Why are some organizations so successful while others try really hard but never seem to get there?

    Or, when something successful does come along, why doesn’t it last?

    Why do successful people leave?

    These are big, important conversations for every organization. Every organization.

    Your local bank, taco shop, church, school, and even– maybe oddly– sole proprietorships. (Yes, you can quit working for yourself!)

    Success Versus Long-term Success

    Long-term success is rarely an accident. I find it’s more frequently the byproduct of an ecosystem. Happy, highly motivated, and well-rewarded people are just doing what they are doing… working hard and living life… and success just kind of happens.

    I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in a successful organization and asked “Why is this success happening?” and no one can tell me why it’s happening. It just is. That’s because the success they are part of is an entire ecosystem where success on a product/program/people isn’t the aim, it’s the byproduct.

    The flip side is that when you see an aberration, success happening in an otherwise not-very-succesful environment, and you ask the same question people often point to something identifiable. (A person, a program, or even an outside force such as a population they are serving.) That’s because this type of success isn’t a byproduct of a healthy ecosystem, it’s the product of the moment.

    Control and Power

    Last week, I shared a video of a presentation I made at The Summit last Fall. I’ve given versions of that talk over and over again. What’s interesting to me is that when I deliver that talk I’ll hear “Amen” and lots of people will nod their head that what I’m saying is absolutely true.

    So why don’t things change? Why is youth ministry nearly wholly focused on reaching 5% of the population of teenagers?

    I don’t know the answer to that question. I wish I did.

    But I know it has something to do with power— youth workers often don’t feel empowered to do what is necessary to reach and/or exceed the expectations put on them.

    And I know it has something to do with control— youth workers often times aren’t equipped to create their own ecosystem, so most of what happens within their area is out of their control.

    Questions

    • What are examples of healthy ecosystems that you’re aware of where success is the byproduct?
    • What’s the ecosystem like where you work?
    Photo credit: Micro Ecosystem by Pierre Pocs Photography via Flickr (Creative Commons) 
  • The Simple Life

    The Simple Life

    Who throws 96 mile per hour fastballs and lives in a camper van for $10,000 per year? The Toronto Blue Jays Daniel Norris.

    ht to Tim Mauer

  • The Most Difficult Place for The Gospel in America

    The Most Difficult Place for The Gospel in America

    The Bible Belt.

    The None Zone.

    Those liberal tree huggers in California.

    It’s hard to reach people in the Northeast.

    Or was it the Pacific Northwest?

    Over the past couple of years I’ve grown increasingly weary of hearing about how one area is especially hard or easy to be a minister of the Gospel.

    One group will point to a set of statistics and say how it’s nearly impossible to do ministry– it’s so much harder than ____.

    Another group will lay claim that they, of course, live in the hardest to reach region of the country.

    It kind of makes my head spin. On the one hand I don’t want to discourage anyone. If pointing to a statistic is somehow motivation for someone to keep going or be more creative or adapt the Gospel to their local context better than that’s great. But on the other hand I think a lot of people miss the bigger, more important point.

    The Most Difficult Place for The Gospel in America is…

    Dinner is The Most Difficult Place for The Gospel in America

    But really? What’s the most difficult place for the Gospel in America? 

    None of those statistics mean anything to the two groups of people you’re actually responsible for reaching with the Good News… and the most difficult.

    1. Your family, the people living in your house…
    2. Your neighbors, the people’s whose house touches your house…

    You can’t make the Gospel big in your community until you make the Gospel small in your life.

    For most, you live on the most difficult block in America to reach. It’s the challenge of a lifetime and one we too often ignore for the sake of trying to reach people we aren’t commanded to reach at all.

    Reach your own family. Then reach out to your neighbors.

  • Toward a Bigger We

    Toward a Bigger We

    Last fall I had the pleasure of presenting at our event, The Summit.

    Here’s the basis of what I’m arguing in this video: Our definition of youth ministry is too small. We (youth workers) make the mistake of thinking that we are the experts, that we “own” ministry to adolescents. This counters a realistic strategy for reaching a theologically appropriate proportion of the adolescent population, counters a core Protestant doctrine, (Priesthood of All Believers) and denies the fact that there are hundreds of thousands of adults currently ministering to adolescents in the places that God has them already.

    Youth group is AN answer. It’s not THE answer. 

    Thoughts?

  • Tech Tuesday Questions about Snapchat, high school graduation, and big data

    Tech Tuesday Questions about Snapchat, high school graduation, and big data

    For the past month or so I’ve had a form in the sidebar of my blog. The intention is for readers to submit their questions about anything tech related. Here’s a few questions that have been submitted.

    Question

    How do I get in contact with Snapchat? I’ll track these mfs down and then snapchat and my friends can be safe!!

    Emma in Australia

    Answer

    Dear Emma, you can always contact Snapchat directly with your user questions and concerns. You could also follow their CEO, Evan Spiegel, on Twitter and connect with him that way.

    And if something has gone wrong, let’s say a law has been broken, I’d encourage you to contact your nearest law enforcement agency so they can work with Snapchat to investigate. (Law enforcement can refer to this handy guide)

    Question

    Can you recommend any books for teenagers entering adulthood, geared towards a 17 year old turning 18 who is making really life changing choices and not good ones?

    LaRie in the United States

    Answer

    Sure, over at The Youth Cartel we released a book for exactly that age group called The Amazing Next. It was written for precisely that age.

    Question

    How do internet companies know so many things and know so much information? Do they make all theses phone apps for kids just to see what there doing and to post there information?

    Sasha in Michigan

    Answer

    Sasha, the first part of your question is actually pretty easy… you can find out lots of information about various things and people specifically because they openly and freely share it. Most people don’t read the terms of service to create accounts. But in most cases, you’re agreeing that the information you share on a website or app belongs to the service provider and they can do with it whatever they want within their policies.

    The second part of your question is a bit more nuanced. Most developers would argue that their app is about it’s utility… they really want to help people connect with their friends or want their app to help people navigate to where they are going. And the data they collect is merely a byproduct. Most will claim that the sale of that information is merely a secondary market for them… but it’s a $50 billion secondary market annually!

    Big data is big business for a lot of reasons, nearly all of them are commercial. Right now, predictive information is what’s hot. Companies want to know what people are talking about today so they know what they’ll buy tomorrow. They buy traffic information so they can know what kinds of people drive by their store. Even hospitals are tapping into big data to predict how many people will visit the emergency room.

    I don’t think people really care about Big Data as it’s macro. We don’t care because it’s kind of about us but not about us specifically.

    The reason I teach healthy social media habits to parents and teenagers is that it’s not Big Data that gets you in trouble. Instead, it’s bad habits that ruin relationships and it’s micro “Little Data” that can lead to personal problems like you losing your job or your teenager not getting a scholarship.


    Got a Tech Tuesday question for me? Head over to my blog and submit your question using the sidebar form. 

     

  • How to Mentor Youth by St. Vincent MacKenna

    How to Mentor Youth by St. Vincent MacKenna

    Yesterday, I spoked at Riverview Community Church in Santee. (About 20 minutes from my house) While I do a fair amount of speaking in churches and schools I’m almost never asked to present brand new material, so it was a fun challenge for me, a throwback to working in the local church and creating brand new stuff all the time.

    I was asked to do part 2 in their series, Redbox at Riverview, where they take a look at a recent movie and explore a spiritual principle. In my case, I was asked to teach on mentoring youth from the vantage point of St. Vincent.

    Note: These are my teaching notes, so not exactly a full manuscript, I’ll post the podcast when it’s available. My slides are included and I’ve added the clipping times for the videos I used. (They are copyrighted videos, so obviously I can’t post those.)


     Scripture Reading – 2 Timothy 1:1-5

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     Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, in keeping with the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus, To Timothy, my dear son:

    Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord. I thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy. I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.

    Intro

    This morning we’re going to look at two relationships… 

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    First century Apostle Paul and first century pastor Timothy

    And… 

    A fictional relationship between a 60-something year old Vincent MacKenna played by Bill Murray and an early adolescent boy named Oliver.

    Let’s start with Paul and Timothy, shall we?

    Context of 2 Timothy

    • Author – Paul wrote 1 & 2 Timothy when he was imprisoned under Nero, 66-67 AD. In the past, when Paul was put in prison, he was really under house arrest and stayed in a rented house. But this time he was chained to a wall… his friends had a hard time locating him… and it was clear that Rome was about to kill him. So 2 Timothy serves as Paul’s last words to Timothy.
    • About Ephesus – Ephesus was a big, important city, capital of the province. It’s most known as the home to the Temple of Diana (Artemis) Paul knew the city well, he’s started Timothy’s church… before silversmith’s ran him out of town! (Acts 19:23-29)
    • Timothy’s church – Timothy was the pastor of the church in Ephesus. He was a young, new pastor leading an established church. In Paul’s mind, his last words to Timothy were really also last words to the church… one he loved.
    • How Paul met Timothy – (Acts 16:1-3) “Paul came to Derbe and then to Lystra, where a disciple named Timothy lived, whose mother was Jewish and a believer but whose father was a Greek. The believers at Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. Paul wanted to take him along on the journey, so he circumcised him because of the Jews who lived in that area, for they all knew that his father was a Greek.”
    • Their relationship – Basically, Timothy was the son Paul never had. Paul worked with a lot of people in his life, trained a lot of pastors… but Timothy always had a special spot.
    • Paul’s hopes for Timothy – All of 2 Timothy, his final words to his protege, are filled with instructions to KEEP GOING and to PREACH THE GOSPEL BOLDLY.
    • and Timothy’s troubles – 1 Timothy addresses some of the problems being faced specifically… but mostly Timothy had to deal with older people in the church not trusting him because he was young… probably under 30… and there were some Christians in the area teaching that Jesus had already returned.

    Introduction of St. Vincent (the movie)

    Today we’re going to look at the film St. Vincent.

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    Here’s the official description I stole from IMDB:

    Vincent is an old Vietnam vet whose stubbornly hedonistic ways have left him without money or a future. Things change when his new next-door neighbor’s son, Oliver, needs a babysitter and Vince is willing enough for a fee. From that self-serving act, an unexpected friendship forms as Vincent and Oliver find so much of each other’s needs through each other. As Vincent mentors Oliver in street survival and other worldly ways, Oliver begins to see more in the old man than just his foibles. When life takes a turn for the worse for Vincent, both them find the best in each other than no one around them suspects.

    Let’s start off by meeting our protagonist… Oliver.

    It’s Oliver’s first day at a new school. He and his mom just moved to town to start a new life… 

    VIDEO: Meet Oliver – (short version) 11:08 – 14:13

    Now Let’s Meet St. Vincent of Sheepshead Bay

    Video: Vincent Meets Oliver – 19:16 – 21:48 (long version)

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    Vincent is…

    • Exceedingly grumpy
    • Probably an alcoholic
    • Smokes a lot of cigarettes
    • Has a gambling problem
    • Is married… but has a relationship with “a woman of the night” – a pregnant stripper

    Contrast that to his namesake… Let’s meet St. Vincent de Paul

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    • For our Catholic friends, St. Vincent de Paul is the patron saint of charitable societies
    • Born in 1580, France.
    • He became a priest in 1600.
    • Shipwrecked at 25 years old, enslaved in Africa for 2 years, he later escaped
    • Upon his return he served as a priest with wealthy Parisian families, which opened doors for him to do use his benefactors wealth, properties, and influence to serve the poor, the sick, and imprisoned.
    • During his lifetime many missions, hospitals, and charities were begun, including the society that bear his name and currently runs Father Joe’s Village in downtown San Diego.
    • St. John’s, Niagara University, and DePaul University in Chicago were all started by the Congregation of the Mission founded by Vincent de Paul. (An order of the priesthood within the Catholic Church)
    • St. Vincent de Paul is a big deal!

    When you look at Vincent of Sheepshead Bay you see the exact opposite of St. Vincent de Paul.

    He is a mess. But he’s our main character…

    And as circumstances would have it, he’s just gotten himself hired to mentor the boy next door.

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    Back to Paul & Timothy

    Paul is an unlikely example of the perfect mentor…

    • First encounter with PaulActs 7:57-60 – He oversaw the first martyrdom of a Christian –  “At this they covered their ears and, yelling at the top of their voices, they all rushed at him, dragged him out of the city and began to stone him. Meanwhile, the witnesses laid their coats at the feet of a young man named Saul. While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.
    • He wasn’t just against Christians, he spent years of his life persecuting Christians. (Acts 9:1-2) “Saul was still breathing out murderous threats against the Lord’s disciples.He went to the high priest and asked him for letters to the synagogues in Damascus, so that if he found any there who belonged to the Way, whether men or women, he might take them as prisoners to Jerusalem.
    • Skipping forward — Years after his conversion, his first attempt at having a protege ended badly – He’d done two long trips with his best friend Barnabas… but their relationship ended over a young man named John Mark. (Acts 15:37-41) “Barnabas wanted to take John, also called Mark, with them, but Paul did not think it wise to take him, because he had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not continued with them in the work. They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus, but Paul chose Silas and left, commended by the believers to the grace of the Lord. He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.
    • So you can imagine what everyone would have thought when they heard about Timothy just a few months later!
      • This won’t last… it’ll be a disaster…
      • Silas is probably going to leave Paul, too
      • Paul is great… but the dude has issues!

    But none of those worries panned out. Instead, just like between Oliver and Vincent, this messy man starts to wear off on Timothy in all of the right ways.

    Which leads us to…

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    Rule #1 of mentoring…

    Mentoring youth is messy and best left to messy, imperfect people.

    Video: Who taught you to slap? – 32:30 – 33:20

    Let’s take a moment to imagine the Apostle Paul and his traveling companion Silas talking in their tent… Acts 16 says..

    “Paul came to Derbe and then to Lystra, where a disciple named Timothy lived, whose mother was Jewish and a believer but whose father was a Greek. The believers at Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. Paul wanted to take him along on the journey” 

    So let’s imagine a conversation about Paul’s idea of taking Timothy with them…

    Paul: Hey Silas, bet you didn’t think we could set up the tent with just the two of us…

    Silas: Really, Paul? You’re going to bring this up when you know why it was so hard… you and your fat mouth are the reason John Mark and Barnabas aren’t here to help.

    Paul: Yeah, that’s my point. We need help.

    Silas: We had help… you don’t play well with others. Remember?

    Paul: I heard good things about this kid, Timothy, today. He comes from a good Jewish home.

    Silas: Well… not good enough. They didn’t even get him circumcised.

    Paul: Yeah, well… I can probably talk him into that. What do you think?

    Silas: I guess… I mean… if he’s willing to get circumcised he’s probably going to be able to put up with you…

    So that’s probably kind of what Paul’s first impression of Timothy was. Probably, not much. But long term? Paul made an incredible impression on Timothy and Timothy made an incredible impression on Paul.

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    Rule #2

    First impressions are never as important as lasting impressions.

    Let’s get back to Vincent and Oliver.

    Video: First Impressions – 24:49 – 25:51

    Their relationship started as a matter of fact.

    • Oliver needed a place to go when he got locked out.
    • Vincent could use $12/hour to watch him.

    And let’s be honest. When it comes to becoming a spiritual mentor to a kid in your life… sometimes it starts off matter of fact.

    And this is what I know from 20 years of working with middle and high school students. Sometimes, that little sliver of opportunity is all Jesus needs to get something big started.

    Video: Vincent Talks to God – 14:21 – 14:39

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    Rule #3

    Walking with Jesus starts right where you are.

    One thing I know from walking with God… a starting point is just that. A starting point. And together, in a relationship, well… things are going to happen.

    When you and a mentee start walking together with Jesus… change is going to happen.

    We see in the life of Paul a change with his relationship to Timothy. When you read Acts 10-15 you encounter a man on a mission… there’s a cycle to it.

    He goes to a city, he preaches in the synagogue until they won’t listen anymore, he preaches out in the agora… the city center, he builds a group of believers, it starts to grow… but eventually he puts his nose in everyone’s business and gets his butt kicked, he escapes in the middle of the night.

    He comes to town, he preaches, he starts a church, he gets his teeth kicked in, he leaves to the next town.

    This isn’t how you build long-term relationships.

    But somehow he becomes more than merely an apostle to Timothy, he becomes his spiritual father.

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    2 Timothy 2:1-3 “You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others. Join with me in suffering, like a good soldier of Christ Jesus.” 

    This is something we also see when you mentor someone. You set out to change them, but they change you more.

    Rule #4

    To be a mentor you have to allow your mentee to mentor you, too.

    Video: Are you praying? – 44:47 – 47:39

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    When we look at the relationship between Paul and Timothy one thing is important to point out.

    • Paul didn’t lead Timothy to Jesus.
    • Acts 16 says he was already of disciple of Jesus when Paul got there.
    • Slide 14 2 Timothy 1:3-5 provides the starting point of Timothy’s walk with Jesus: “I thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy.  I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.”
    • Paul was picking up where mom and grandma left off!

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    Rule #5

    Mentors don’t supercede the role of parents they validate a parent’s message.

    Along the way, Oliver somehow manages to weed out the bad stuff he’s learning from Vincent to appreciate the heart behind what grumpiness.

    Oliver watches how Vincent loves his wife, who lives in a nursing home, and he learns to love his mom more because of that influence.

    Video: I Love You Mom – 1:27:26 – 1:28:25

    Let’s take a slightly more voyeuristic look at Paul and Timothy’s relationship.

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    2 Timothy 4:11-13 “Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, because he is helpful to me in my ministry. I sent Tychicus to Ephesus. When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, and my scrolls, especially the parchments.”

    There’s so much we DON’T know.

    • We don’t know how Paul and John Mark reconciled, we just see that they did.
    • We don’t know if Timothy ever made it.
    • We don’t even know how Paul died, tradition holds that he was beheaded, but that story dates to about 110 AD, 40 years after the fact.

    But there are things we DO know.

    • The relationship between Paul and Timothy has been preserved through time because of the work of the Holy Spirit.
    • The record of this relationship was preserved for believers to learn from. Luke, the author of Acts, was present when Paul wrote his letter to Timothy.
    • There are not many New Testament relationships we know so much about…
    • We know the church in Ephesus survived, at least for a while. The Apostle John refers specifically to this church in Revelation 2… 90-105 AD range.

    And so are here today, bearing witness to– recognizing the work of Paul the mentor of Timothy.

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    Rule #6

    Mentors aren’t often recognized for their work, but when they are it is awesome.

    Video: Presented for Sainthood – 1:29:52 – 1:28:25

    Application

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    Strive to live like Jesus — to be Paul— you need a Timothy in your life.

    • Paul was deeply flawed
      • He lead a rebellion AGAINST followers of Jesus, it literally took Jesus blinding Paul to get him to give his life to Jesus at all! (You’re doing better than that, already!)
      • He failed at his first recorded attempt to mentor a young leader… John Mark…  in Acts 13:13, Paul and Barnabas ended a long relationship over John Mark in Acts 15:36-41.
      • Paul was fiercely self-sufficient… he only reluctantly received help from the churches he helped start.
      • Paul’s work was his family… he either never married or he neglected his family for the sake of missionary efforts.
    • But Paul sacrificed his way for “The Way” or what we call today, living as a follower of Jesus.
      • As a Christ follower he lead rebellion against Rome that cost him his life but toppled the Roman Empire two centuries later.
      • Rome brought peace forcefully. (Pax Romani… sarcastic way of saying “We bring peace with an army!”)
      • Paul’s strategy was an insurrection of the heart… the more Christians sacrificed, the more powerful and attractive the message became.
    • If we want to see how we can live out a day-to-day life with Jesus, we can look at the day-to-day life of Paul.
      • Paul was deeply flawed, just like us. Yet he chose to be faithful to the God who met him on the road, smacked him upside the head, and set him on a better course.
      • Jesus’ way is to use deeply flawed people to point others to a completely flawless God.
      • And the more we sacrifice what we want, for what Jesus wants in our life, the more we’ll be able to stand back and marvel at what Jesus can do through us.

    Take away #1

    We can look to Paul as an example of how to live like Jesus wants us to live

    And the next takeaway?

    Video: The Assignment – 1:06:09 – 1:07:01

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    Takeaway #2

    Identify the everyday saints in your life

    Amen

  • Trip Friends

    Trip Friends

    In my experience we tease people we like. By that measure the Haiti Vision Team really likes one another.

    Wrapping up my third vision trip with PPM is bittersweet. It’s bitter because I love the people. It was so awesome to see a lot of pastors I’ve visited before, to catch up with them about their ministry and family… It’s great to hang with the PPM Haiti staff who are some of the most gracious people on the planet… But most of all it was such an honor to be with a group of youth workers this weekend who caught the vision for what partnering their ministry with a Haitian ministry could look like.

    And oh! We teased one another endlessly. From the simple “cool kids sit in the back of the bus” to the endless jokes that I must be a blue state liberal from California, [I prefer granola, for the record] the teasing was playful and a sign that everyone enjoyed the trip.

    Today we took a long bus ride to visit to a remote church north of Port-au-Prince about 2 hours out of town.

    After we huffed and puffed up a steep and slippery hill to the church [because the bus couldn’t make it], our my complaining ended when we learned that the Haitian staff of PPM had saved their own money and invested their own time to start this building project, Haitians serving Haitians to build the Kingdom of God. We learned that before this building was constructed the church met under tarps on the top of the hill, usually in the mud. And the Pastor humbly told us how he’d ruined his back with years of setting up and carrying the poles and tent to the top of the hill for worship.

    From there we took a little pit stop and visited a large park with a waterfall. I love rivers and creeks. So it did my heart some good to have some time in a river. I didn’t make it all the way up the rapids to the waterfall, but I loved cooling off in the water below.

    After driving back to Carrefour, we capped off our trip with a special dinner with some pastors we hadn’t yet gotten to meet. For me it was another opportunity to reconnect with several pastors I’d met in the past. And Pastor Samson, the first pastor PPM connected with in Haiti, delivered a powerful message about the strengths of his partnership with PPM and how God is using their relationship to re-invigorate his churches calling to missions. Including plans for his church in Carrefour to send the first PPM team to Cuba as well as a team to their partner church in Mississippi. (Re-read that sentence. Mind blown a little???)

    Lastly, we came back to Good Shepherd to do a final debrief. And by debrief I really a mean one last time to tease one another.

    Here’s the thing I loved about the people who came on the vision trip: they had no pretension, they had no firmly held opinions about what to expect, and they came with open hearts to hear from God about potentially bringing their church back to Haiti. You simply can’t ask for more faithfulness than that.

    I think it’s easy to forget about a place like Haiti. It’s a statistic factory. But one thing you might miss if you’ve never been here is that while they may be known for some things, they are not known for spiritual poverty.

    It’s easy to look at Haiti with pity. But if you paint Haiti as a place to pity you’d likely miss what God’s up to here. God is pouring out his grace on the poorest country in our hemisphere. There has been a tremendous spiritual awakening going on here for more than five years.

    And so when I think about “Why I come here?” I just look at it rather simply: I want to be where God’s on the move.

    And that movement? It’s an invitation. Come here. Just trust me on this. Come.


     

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  • The hammock, the wind, the silence

    The hammock, the wind, the silence

    Relaxing in my hammock after a long day of travel and getting to know our group, including meeting with a Pastor over on the opposite end of Port-at-Prince, cool breezes wash over me… Relaxing me as my mind wanders in every direction at once.

    I’d never take a cold shower at home but I love them here. There’s something incredible about the cold water splashing you in the face, washing off the grim of a day’s travels,  and cooling your body down.

    The splashes of water cement the memories of the day in my mind.

    Today was one of those days so long it felt like two. Thinking back, my espresso powered layover in Miami couldn’t have been today. Fighting through baggage claim couldn’t have been today. A mid-morning Coke couldn’t have been today. Seeing the progress at Pastor Jacky’s couldn’t have been today. Seeing Sister Mona, having dinner with the team, worshipping on the roof with distance lighting wasn’t today. But it was. Some days are like that… So long and so eventful that as you finally stop to think about it it couldn’t have been just a day

    As I swing here I just can’t stop thinking to myself, “I love seeing lightning in the distance, thunder gently rolling by.”

    The wind brings the smell of charcoal fires, the echoes of too many loud radios, the shouts of Creole, the honking horns.

    I’m left to ask as I drift off… Where is silence? Amidst the chaos is it found in the crickets chirp? Is it found in the droning boat engine noise of a nearby cargo ship loading through the night? Is there silence found in the noise of the chaos? Or maybe silence will come from somewhere else tonight? And why does the swaying door in the wind calm me when it’d annoy me at home?

    As I drift off I’m seriously debating sleeping outside in this hammock– reflecting on this long day until sleep comes.

    The noise, the smell, the breeze, everything odd, yet familiar. The energy Haiti brings my soul. How is it that a place is so foreign that it feels like home?

    Do you have a place like that so other in your life? Yesterday, before the trip began, was so ordinary and wonderful. A day with the kids, my daily work, dinner with the family. And then… 24 hours later… I find silence in the wind, swinging in a hammock, 50 noisy feet from the Caribbean.

    Where do you find silence? Where do you rest in the wind? Where do the crickets call you to sleep?

    For me, it’s this hammock, this place, this country. Where is it for you?

     


     

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  • More than a “missions experience”

    More than a “missions experience”

    Late tomorrow night I board an overnight flight for Port-au-Prince, Haiti. Once there I’ll spend the next four days with a dozen pastors and youth pastors from across the United States who are coming to explore bringing a team to Haiti with Praying Pelican Missions.

    I have a confession to make: Going to Haiti doesn’t make me nervous anymore.

    My first trip in 2010 I was really, really nervous. Just a few weeks after the devastating earthquakes that brought Port-au-Prince to it’s knees I nudged against Ian Robertson at the San Diego airport and said, “What in the world are we doing going there right now?” In preparation, I’d stared at the endless devastation on CNN for hours, read and watched everything I could take in, and been warned by a travel doctor of every possible ailment I could contract.

    Going to Haiti in 2010 felt death-defying and harrowing and a little ridiculous. Something you survived.

    But… I’ve made six trips since then. And a lot has happened in 64 months there.

    I’m not nervous about my trip at all. I’m just excited.

    The Value of a Missions Experience

    I do, indeed, think that one important aspect of youth ministry– one indelible opportunity for every student involved in a youth group— is a missions experience. Living in the United States is incredibly ethnocentric. And adolescence is a crucial time to shape a worldview that is bigger than the United States.

    Part of our job as a youth worker is to help teenagers understand that the Kingdom of God is bigger, stronger, more connected, and better than the place that we live. Jesus followers are citizens of the Kingdom… to discover that you have to get out of your culture. You have to be in other places, worshipping with different people, eat different foods, explore different cultures, and fall in love with something outside of what you know.

    Whether it’s across town, across the country, or across an ocean I believe a healthy youth ministry includes a healthy dose of missions experiences. It’s good praxis. It’s good theology. It’s good sociology and anthropology.

    More than a “Missions Experience”

    Jim Noreen & Sister Mona at Good Shepherd Orphanage
    Jim Noreen & Sister Mona at Good Shepherd Orphanage

    But I’m 38, not 15.

    Frankly, I don’t need another missions experience. I love exploring and visiting new places and meeting new people as much as the next person. But I am at the point in life where I want more than a one-off experience.

    I want real relationships. I want to know what I’m doing is sustainable. I want to build partnerships. I want to lift up the local church and strengthen ministries in the things that I do. And I want to make sure that what I’m do is helping and not hurting.

    That’s why I’m excited and not nervous about my trip this weekend. I’m going on a vision trip with a dozen folks from around the United States and we’ll spend 4 days with people in Haiti that I know– Eric and Bethany, (get to know Bethany a bit in this post) Cassie and Almando, Rudy, Sister Mona, Pastor Valcourt are people I’ve built relationships with, and have seen how these long-term partnerships lead to sustainable ministry through the local church in Haiti.

    To get the opportunity to introduce people to that kind of health? There’s no room for nerves, only excitement.


     

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