Validation
I wish validation were as simple a thing as getting your parking validated at the restaurant after dinner.
Validation is like helium. It’s a blast when you inhale it. And it’s present in the atmosphere all the time. But capturing it? Nearly impossible.
There’s something gnarly in us that seeks validation. A desire to see yourself as legit comes from a dark, insecure place. Seeking validation is lonely. It’s unnatural and unhealthy.
And although it’s an unhealthy place of loneliness it’s the corner pub, full of lonely and unhealthy people on a Friday night ignoring reality while seeking a fix.

Saturday begins an 8 week sprint to Thanksgiving. Between now and then I’ll be away from home roughly 50% of the time, generally gone Thursday-Sunday.
Over the past few weeks I’ve visited well over 1,000 individual, local church websites.


I just noticed that I was quoted in
You know what I mean by Pinterest-ing, right?