5 Ways to Be Good News in Your Neighborhood on Halloween

Christians have a weird history with celebrating Halloween. Not growing up in the church I was appauled when I heard church people refer to it as “Devil’s night” and say things like, “Of course we don’t celebrate Halloween.” It’s as if we’re talking about two different holidays. There’s the one that actually happens and the one that you’re afraid is happening. Like all things– fear is irrational. 

The whole anti-Halloween concept is built on a theology of fear. Be reminded that in Ephesians 5 Paul instructs Christians to be light in dark places!

Many churches offer alternatives such as harvest parties, hell houses, or trunk-or-treating. Those things aren’t bad, but they aren’t good news in your neighborhood

Here’s my suggestion: Skip the Christian alternatives altogether and embrace Halloween for what it is. It’s a night when hundreds of families will wander around your neighborhood, smiling and enjoying one another, and giving candy to children.

Think strategically: For those who are anti-Halloween I have this challenge. One night a year one hundred families want to come to your door and say hello. Are you going to greet them? Or are you going to turn off your light and pretend they don’t exist?

Don’t be “that guy” on your block. Embrace Halloween as an opportunity to be good news in your neighborhood.

5 Ways You Can Be Good News in Your Neighborhood on Halloween

  1. Sit on the front porch. One of my favorite things to do is to sit on the front porch all night and talk to people as they come by. Resist the temptation to go inside between visitors. Trust me on this. You’ll like what happens. You’ll make great small talk with parents AND every time I’ve done it my neighbors see me and do the same. We have great little conversations porch-to-porch conversations between visitors.
  2. Make it a game. Set up a simple game in your front yard to give trick-or-treaters the opportunity to win the big candy bar. It could be as simple as a bean bag toss or throwing a football to knock something down. Make it simple, kids want to hit every house on your block, but this will make a great impression.
  3. Host a warming station on your block. We’ve done this one bunches of times– it’s ALWAYS a blast. We had close to 1000 trick-or-treaters at our house in Michigan and doing this cost me, maybe, $75. Set up a little tent in your driveway or front yard and serve coffee, hot cocoa, and apple cider. It’s a great break to the routine and easy to invite your small group or someone who doesn’t have trick-or-treaters to help with. Do it 2-3 years in a row and you’ll get known as the house that does that tent thing. Really want to make some friends? Offer parents a little Kahula or Bailey’s for their hot drink!
  4. Do something fun and not-so-scary. There are people in our neighborhood who go all out. They build tunnels over the sidewalk and scare the tar out of children. You can have fun like that and just make it fun. Rent a bounce house and play some music. Be weird and decorate your house for Christmas. Dress up like the easter bunny and have an easter egg hunt every 15 minutes. Just because you don’t want to get into the whole devil/ghosts/zombie thing doesn’t mean you can’t be creative to have some fun with the hundreds of kids who will come up your walk.
  5. Cover every house. I live on a block that has some elderly folks. Consequently, we have kind of a bummer block because many of them aren’t mobile enough to hand out candy. It would be great to rally a few people and make sure every porch light is on and there is candy at every house. Warning: You may need to actually talk to your neighbors to pull this one off. (Which is more scary than Halloween itself, right?)

What are other ways you can embrace Halloween as a way to be Good News in your neighborhood?

  • Barb

    For around 30 years now, I have had a dinner for families to come by before trick or treating.   They eat then go out trick or treating in our sub.    I’ve always left it open to whoever wants to come.  The only requirement I have is please try to let me know if you are coming and if you are bringing friends.   That way I know how much spaghetti & chili or whatever I making to make.  I always look forward to seeing all the kids (and some adults) dressed up.  I love seeing so many people come to our house just for a quick dinner and a little chatting .   As you know Adam, I don’t have a large house, but that has never stopped us.   If the chairs are all taken theirs always a spot on the floor.   There have been so many people throughout the years that I don’t know, but they are still welcome.   LOVE IT!!!

  • http://www.martyestes.com Marty Estes

    For the second year in a row, our church will join with businesses, churches, and other organizations in our town to host a citywide fall festival in our downtown area.  Everyone sets up booths, has games, and hands out candy and information.  It’s a great way to be out in the community instead of asking the community to come to us.  

  • Rayhausler

    We’re in a rural area where door to door trick or treating is very difficult. We’ve been good news to our neighborhood by creating the place to go. In our context, the trunk or treat is good news. But we’re doing it better this year and moving it to the school where we are also going to collect donations for the school.

  • KJ

    I’m disapointed, Adam!  This post is absolutely void of any political statements about the injustice involved in eating out-of-season tomatoes or why followers of Jesus MUST agree with the dream act. 

    Although I’m sure to some folks the idea of Christians participating in Halloween is a lighting-rod issue in itself.

    I love all these ideas, and I’m implementing at least one of them THIS year….such good stuff. 

    Our church hosts a MASSIVE Halloween event each year that is actually fairly balanced, IMHO. We have trick or treating on campus, allow families to come dressed however they choose, etc.  It’s not billed so much as an “alternative” but more as a place to come have fun and get tons of candy in a short amount of time (the parking lot is filled with hundreds of family-operated booths that give out candy…)

    As a result, I rub shoulders with way more unchurched families at that event than staying at home. But….we always slip out as early as possible so we can be home when the neighborhood action hits.

    GREAT blog post full of easily implemented ideas to become more missional as families.

    Thanks!

    • http://adammclane.com Adam McLane

      Don’t worry. We will be serving free range, grass fed candy. :)

      The thing at Saddleback is cool. Your church is it’s own zip code… seems pretty cool to me!

  • http://www.facebook.com/pastorjeffreyd Jeffrey Dick

    We have offered a number of activities at the church over the years.  In years when we have not, I enjoy sitting on the porch and chatting with the kids and parents.

    This year we will offer Holy Hospitailty at the church.   Many folks come in from the rural areas around our town and park here and then walk the neighborhood.   We offer coffee, cider and popcorn.   Parents really enjoy the break.

    I like your idea of the bean bag toss (we can have a Michigan State and UofM toss).   Thanks

  • http://www.facebook.com/beckydurham00 Becky Durham

    LOVE all of these. Our church does a Halloween Party on the Wednesday before Halloween, which I love because it gives kids/families an extra chance to wear their costumes and get candy!

    We moved a couple of years ago and I love how our new neighborhood does Halloween. Everyone sits outside and talks to each other and passes out good candy. I love your Easter Egg hunt idea, by the way. :-)

    • http://adammclane.com Adam McLane

      I thought that would be fun. Like.. how crazy would it be to dress up like Santa? 

  • Brian Aaby

    I love the practical call you give here Adam! We’ve been doing the hot apple cider thing the last few years and the adults chaperoning the kids have especially grown to love us! I love the idea of having some sort of game out front!
    This year Halloween is on Monday, I’m thinking a projection unit, hot cider and maybe grilling some dogs with some Monday Night Football on the garage door!

  • http://www.rjgrune.com RJ Grunewald

    So do you not recommend handing out bible tracts instead of candy?  Hah.

    • http://adammclane.com Adam McLane

      Only if that is the bible tract app on the iphone your handing out. :)  

  • http://www.facebook.com/MisterDubbs Bryan Watson

    Woah: celebrating the Holiday of Satan and Harry Potter is bad enough, but alky-holl?!?  Next you’ll be watching PG movies and watching MSNBC.

    • http://adammclane.com Adam McLane

      I don’t really like holidays… but for some reason I really enjoy Halloween. Er, what does that say about me? 

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  • http://twitter.com/ADifferentDirec ADifferentDirection

    Such a fresh way to point out that Halloween can be a blessing. I will be following your blog for even more insights. God bless!

  • http://www.facebook.com/travisdeans Travis Deans

    Great ideas Adam! Thanks!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/ChrisLema Chris Lema

    This year we’re doing something we’ve never done – we’re headed to Disneyland.

  • Steve Holt

    Good stuff Adam… I always hated having to go to the “Christian” alternative. I loved when we moved to Ohio and our church did not do an alternative. For once I got to sit in my driveway start a fire, hand out candy and hang out with the neighborhood. You can’t be light when it’s covered up by a church building.

  • http://www.thesnuffy.com/ Todd Porter

    I do number 3 and now my neighbors look forward to it and expect it. I love being able to be good news in my neighborhood at Halloween.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=753264583 Carl Fuglein

    Adam- Great ideas all. I usually sit outside and talk to the kids and the parents. We average about 75 individual kids, and I swear someone busses them in, because there aren’t near that many kids in our sub-division. We have fun. I’m looking into a bounce house (I’ve got my waivers handy)

  • anonymous

    I read how easy it was to be known as the house that does the tent thing, and I’m sure all of these ideas will make you well known in the neighborhood. Just wondering how many commitments to Christ and disciples have you seen as ‘fruit’ of your embracing Halloween in these ways?