Category: Current Affairs

  • Savior: The Adult Desire to Save Teenagers From Themselves

    Photo by fengschwing via Flickr (Creative Commons)

    Am I the only one who notices that adults seem to obsessed about teenage lives? More to the point, we seem obsessed with pointing out how we need to intervene before they destroy themselves and the human race.

    Our culture takes a very negative view of people between the ages of 13-18. If you work with them, you are used to folks turning up their noses when you tell them you love working with that age group.

    Here are some recent headlines to illustrate the point:

    School: Little as they try, students can’t get a D here [New York Times] more articles…

    Sleep: Lack of sleep linked to obesity for teen boys [Time Magazine] more articles…

    Sex: Teenage girls rely on the rhythm method [What is the trend] more articles…

    Crime: States rethink “adult time for adult crime” [CNN] more articles…

    Forgive me if the links provided aren’t damning evidence. You are welcome to browse my entire body of hundreds of news articles on adolescence to get a better flavor. What I am talking about is not a hot pile of evidence. It is a slow burn of negative views on adolescents as well as adult desires to fix teenagers.

    Another angle that demonstrates this is our wonderment over a teenager who does something good. Sail around the world? Shocking! Raise money for a worthy cause? News at 11! Start a successful business? Give her an award!

    It seems that those news stories are of interest, in part, because we expect teenagers to only do negative/self-destructive things and when they do something amazing it must be newsworthy.

    Three observations I want to point out on this topic

    1. Jesus is their savior, you aren’t.
    2. Have you ever wondered why sports are so popular with adolescents? Maybe it’s the easiest place for them to achieve and/or exceed expectations.
    3. Teenagers have about the same grades, sleep about the same, have the same amount of sex, and commit the same amount of crimes that they always have. Our obsessing over it only reveals something twisted in our lives and not theirs.
  • What Happens When BP Spills Coffee

    Sadly, this about sums up the response so far.

    Pretty happy about being a BP shareholder right now, lemme tell you. Great investment!

  • A Widow’s Perspective on Memorial Day

    For more, I believe President Obama captures the essence and heart of Memorial Day quite well in this piece.

  • The Disadvantaged White Protestant Straight Males

    John Paul Stevens, soon to retire Supreme Court Justice

    (Yes, the title of  this post is sensationalistic. But it got you to read it, right?)

    All of my life I’ve grown up with versions of this phrase, “Don’t judge someone by their color, race, ethnicity, gender, or religion– judge them by their character and abilities.

    I grew up in a college town, with the University of Notre Dame within my elementary, middle, and high school’s boundaries, we were as melting pot a community as you could get in Indiana. Lots of ethnicities, lots of religions, lots of races. Growing up with that sort of diversity makes you hungry for it. It’s one of the things I love most about San Diego, where we live now.

    Stuff like that just doesn’t matter.” That’s what we were taught. That was really our mantra growing up. And if I’m really honest– that’s what I believe in the core of my being. In fact, given the choice I still prefer to celebrate diversity. Kristen and I exhibit this by where we chose to live and the schools we chose to put our kids in and the church we chose to worship in.

    I want my kids to grow up believing in Dr. King’s dream.

    Perhaps that’s why I was so shocked to read this piece in Sunday’s New York Times:

    With just five exceptions, every member of the Supreme Court in the nation’s history has been a white male, like Justice John Paul Stevens.

    But Justice Stevens cuts a lone figure on the current court in one demographic category: He is the only Protestant.

    His retirement, which was announced on Friday, makes possible something that would have been unimaginable a generation or two ago — a court without a single member of the nation’s majority religion.

    — [moving to the end of the article] —

    For his part, Professor Stone said there were ways a justice’s religious affiliation could have an impact on the court. President Obama, for instance, could nominate an evangelical Christian.

    Mark Tushnet, a law professor at Harvard, had another suggestion.

    President Obama, he said, could use Justice Stevens’s retirement as an opportunity both to honor tradition and to break new ground.

    “The smartest political move,” he said, “would be to nominate an openly gay, Protestant guy.” read the full article

    So, if I read that right the Supreme Court nomination is open to anyone who isn’t… a white protestant straight male.

    I’m not calling it discrimination. But I find it odd. I’m all in favor of choosing people for the Supreme Court for political reasons. That’s certainly a tradition and one of the major privileges of being elected President. And I understand that as our nation has fought to make diversity a value, we had to intentionally place individuals in places of power and decision to communicate that value. All things equal, for more than a generation, we’ve chosen to elevate someone of another race, gender, religion, or whatever.

    This has helped significantly communicate, “It doesn’t matter where you’ve come from you can get anywhere in our culture.

    But I wonder at what point does the discussion get back to purely, “Who is the most qualified?” and “Who would keep the courts balanced to represent a variety of worldviews?

    In other words– I’d like to think we’ve arrived at a place in our nations history where it truly doesn’t matter the color of your skin, what nation your parents came from, where or if you worship, what your gender or sexual preference is, or even where your degree comes from.

    Have we reached a place where white, protestant, straight, males are not put on the sidelines because of their race, gender, and sexual preference?

    Apparently not.

  • Church vs. Government

    Christians make strange political bedfellows

    Have you noticed that a lot of Christians are exhibiting a hatred for our government?

    I just don’t get it.

    For those who are mad about the latest government program… (yesterday it was social security, today it is health care, tomorrow it will be something else.)

    Just some friendly reminders

    • Anger isn’t the answer, it just make you look silly.
    • Agreeing with everything isn’t an option, we live in a pluralistic democratic society.
    • Living in denial of the situation we live in isn’t an option.
    • Pointing back to founding fathers of the nation is silly, they are dead.
    • Separating from society isn’t a biblical option.
    • Moving to Canada isn’t an option, they don’t want you.

    What is an option?

    • Changing your attitude.
    • Being a part of the solution.
    • Loving your neighbor.
    • Caring for your neighborhood and proving it with your actions.
    • Being hospitable to people you don’t know.
    • Stop waiting for your church to start a program.
    • Putting the needs of others above the needs of yourself.

    If you are Good News to your community you have to live like it.

    If you aren’t willing to be Good News to your community, than shut up and let the government do what you aren’t willing to do.

    Doing nothing tangible and also complaining about the government doing a bad job at your job… let’s just say that’s not “Good News.

  • Poll: How much cash do you typically carry?


    Maybe it’s just me, but I’m shocked to see how many people carry $50-$100 in cash in their wallets. Just so I know if I’m weird or not, humor me and let me know how much you typically have on you. (Totally secret, no way for me to know who said what.)

  • Life After Debt

    Americans borrowed less for an 11th consecutive month in December, paying off credit cards while increasing borrowing for cars and other products. link

    This is great news. For 11 months in 2009 the American people not only covered their bills, but they paid down debt. The irony of that is clear. 2009 was a horrible year financially for a lot of people.

    This next line in the USA Today article clears up why the stock market tumbled on this news.

    The mixed picture raises hopes that Americans may soon return to spending, a necessary condition for economic recovery. link

    Our national economy, jobs in America, and some would tell you the future our our nation itself… depends on you and I going deeper and deeper into debt to buy stuff we don’t need with money we don’t have. Cute, eh?

    Maybe we should all collectively just hold on to our money for another 11 months and enjoy this recession a little more so we can all get out of debt?

    Think about it like this. In the worst economic year in decades and we collectively covered our monthly bills and paid down our debts for 11 straight months. This is great news! And it also reveals that debt is a head issue and not always a money issue.

    I know for our family 2009 was a hard year. We had to wrestle through stuff we didn’t like to wrestle through. But the flip side is that we are way better off financially for it. Less debt, more savings, and an attitude of frugality we hope lasts a lifetime.

  • Throwing Down the Chicken Gauntlet

    First KFC did this:

    Then Oprah talked about it and it went like this:

    Then, a bunch of folks did this. Bam!


    Part 2

    Then, a chicken chain here in SoCal responded with this. Ole`!

    Where will it end? I can’t be too certain. But I have a feeling that Colonel Sanders and the crazy chicken are going to fight. In the streets of Louisville. Midnight. On Mother’s Day.

  • PETA Rebrands Fish as Sea Kittens

    Yes, PETA is trying to rebrand fish as sea kittens. You can’t make this stuff up! It seems that kids game sites have gotten so out-of-hand that one of the kookiest of leftist bunches decided they needed one too. What’s next, KKKids.com? (Uh, that seems to be a movie site in Japan or something!)

    Here are some sea kittens we made.

    I kid you not. Paul wanted to be a Tuna because they taste so good. I have to admit, I like some tuna sea kitten just as much as I like Tuna fish.